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| Fri, 04-09-2010 - 12:40pm |
I never thought I would consider having an "A".
| Fri, 04-09-2010 - 12:40pm |
I never thought I would consider having an "A".
Dear Sassyea,
There will always be people that we have an intense attraction to. The problem is, if you are in a committed relationship you have to stir clear of this magnetic pull or you will end up like every gal posting on this board; ending an A that has practically ruined their lives.
Start reading every post on here you can. Go down to the Healing Library on the main page near the bottom and read the thread called "Chemistry Lesson," followed by the D-Day thread, and then the thread called, "Rules for maintaining LC at the workplace." Although you haven't had an A yet, you are circling very dangerous territory that could pull you in like a magnet. The LC rules will help you to behave while you are around this guy.
PLEASE, don't go there. All the thrills and chills we have in the beginning of A turn into cuts and bruises that will
~Iddy~
I ask you to please read all you can.
I am sitting - waiting in tears, full of angst, having to go in an hour to a meeting where my X-AP will be. We had a very very intense 2 year 'relationship' - both our significant others now know, and the pain of moving past our A is taking an indescribable toll on all of us - children included.
You will never know such grief. I wish I could go-back, but I can't. I will live with the consequences for the rest of my life.
Hugs, AAI
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
Sassy,
Take heed of
Sassy,
Have you ever done crack, heroine or meth? Are you tempted to?
NO WAY!!, you say? Everyone knows those drugs are bad for you and that they have a highly addictive nature, you say? Who in their right mind would ever want to get mixed up with something that
Sassyea...
We've all been where you are... The attraction, the good feelings, the giddi-ness, the hormones, the EVERYTHING....
As a M woman I can also relate to many of the things you say about your M, although it's a bit different (but I needed more emotionally!)...
I don't know how to say it... (b/c I feel like a hypocrite) but STOP it NOW!!!
Oh, dear, Sassy:
You have wisely chosen to come here before committing non-lethal suicide.
I may have got this from here awhile back... I had it save on my computer...
Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.