New and hurting

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Registered: 02-07-2011
New and hurting
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Mon, 02-07-2011 - 3:13pm

My situation is a little different in that AP and I haven't actually seen each other since 1994, when our affair first started.

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Registered: 11-22-2009
Mon, 02-07-2011 - 3:46pm

lisac,

Let me get this straight. The last time you saw your AP was in 1994 and you have been M for 13 years. So, you were S and he was/is M at that time? Then you got M around 1997 and now have a 7 year old adopted son. Have you been on endings before? Your story sounds familiar. Anyway, I am not judging you at all..just trying to get the timeline straight in my head.

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Who would be the one to start it up again? Be honest here...

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And what is that exactly? What is it that he did to you that you aren't doing right back? Please explain.

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Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 02-07-2011
Mon, 02-07-2011 - 4:24pm

Hi iddy,

Thanks for your reply, I'm sorry I know I rambled in my first post so it was confusing.