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| Sun, 10-11-2009 - 2:29pm |
Excuse me if I don't use the correct abbreviations - I'm still learning.
| Sun, 10-11-2009 - 2:29pm |
Excuse me if I don't use the correct abbreviations - I'm still learning.
Hi Kierstin, welcome to EAS!
First off, stay off of Ashley Madison, it's dirt hole....as you found out.
Second.
Trust me, if I hadn't of been watching a talk show about that site, I would have never been on it.
Okay Honey, here's the answer to your question.
Hi Kierstin,
"and sure as heck didn't share my man.
Nice discovery Kierstin!
Affairing LOL should be a real word!
Jen,
I wrote that in the wee hours so the brain wasn't working properly....but it made me chuckle so I kept it in the post.
welcome to our Endings family!!!!! have you read the posts in the HL (healing library, below)? we've all stood in your shocked and feeling silly shoes at ending. we've all ended and felt 'duped' and hurt and shocked.
it sounds to me as if your xap (YEA!) is trotting out the tried and true: he 'loves' you.... he is getting a D(divorce)...trouble is that that big D day never comes and the date keeps moving out farther and further along.... and meanwhile, you are left to be a dusty book to be taken off the dark shelf whenever he decides to blow that dust off and open the option pages.
you see, if they really wanted to be with us, they would be. it's that simple. the fact is, he's chosen his W- for all their dysfunction and obviously twisted games. hence, he goes 'dark' on you whenever he feels like it and yanks your yo yo string whenever he feels like it. we teach them how to treat us, after all.
honey...put on your nikes. exit stage left into the real world of living- as you have done. ending is a tough road to hoe. but its so worth it.
happiness and living
await you
ls
CL-Lovely Starr
"No memory of having starred; atones for later disregard; or keeps the end from being hard."
CL-Lovely Starr
"No memory of having starred; atones for later disregard; or keeps the end from being h