New and just want to "talk"

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Registered: 10-11-2009
New and just want to "talk"
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Sun, 10-11-2009 - 2:29pm

Excuse me if I don't use the correct abbreviations - I'm still learning.

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Registered: 09-25-2006
Sun, 10-11-2009 - 4:57pm

Hi Kierstin, welcome to EAS!


First off, stay off of Ashley Madison, it's dirt hole....as you found out.


Second.

Onward and upward.
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Registered: 10-11-2009
Sun, 10-11-2009 - 10:17pm

Trust me, if I hadn't of been watching a talk show about that site, I would have never been on it.

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Registered: 10-10-2009
Sun, 10-11-2009 - 10:58pm
I know you want to know why he didn't tell you But maybe he actually is doing you a favor by just walking away the way he did. Break ups are hard and they hurt like heck...even more in an A. I agree with the other poster, just keep yourself busy. I have learned this year that everything happens for a reason. Sometimes you figure out the reason right away and sometimes it takes awhile. Anyways just take one day at a time. Go to lunch with friends or dinner. Find different activities to keep your mind busy.
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Registered: 09-25-2006
Mon, 10-12-2009 - 12:19am

Okay Honey, here's the answer to your question.

Onward and upward.
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Registered: 10-11-2009
Mon, 10-12-2009 - 1:07am
You are 100% right and I appreciate the replies.
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Registered: 11-14-2008
Mon, 10-12-2009 - 1:58am

Hi Kierstin,


"and sure as heck didn't share my man.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2006
Mon, 10-12-2009 - 2:20am

Nice discovery Kierstin!

Onward and upward.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2008
Mon, 10-12-2009 - 2:54pm

Affairing LOL should be a real word!

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Registered: 09-25-2006
Mon, 10-12-2009 - 3:08pm

Jen,


I wrote that in the wee hours so the brain wasn't working properly....but it made me chuckle so I kept it in the post.

Onward and upward.
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Registered: 04-16-2008
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 10:45am
hi k:
welcome to our Endings family!!!!! have you read the posts in the HL (healing library, below)? we've all stood in your shocked and feeling silly shoes at ending. we've all ended and felt 'duped' and hurt and shocked.
it sounds to me as if your xap (YEA!) is trotting out the tried and true: he 'loves' you.... he is getting a D(divorce)...trouble is that that big D day never comes and the date keeps moving out farther and further along.... and meanwhile, you are left to be a dusty book to be taken off the dark shelf whenever he decides to blow that dust off and open the option pages.
you see, if they really wanted to be with us, they would be. it's that simple. the fact is, he's chosen his W- for all their dysfunction and obviously twisted games. hence, he goes 'dark' on you whenever he feels like it and yanks your yo yo string whenever he feels like it. we teach them how to treat us, after all.
honey...put on your nikes. exit stage left into the real world of living- as you have done. ending is a tough road to hoe. but its so worth it.
happiness and living
await you
ls

CL-Lovely Starr


"No memory of having starred; atones for later disregard; or keeps the end from being hard."

CL-Lovely Starr

"No memory of having starred; atones for later disregard; or keeps the end from being h