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| Sun, 11-21-2010 - 1:42am |
Hello,
I ended my 8 month affair back in July.
| Sun, 11-21-2010 - 1:42am |
Hello,
I ended my 8 month affair back in July.
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Hi WS,
Welcome to the board.
WS...welcome to EAS and congratulations on 10 weeks NC!
wanderingstar,
ah yes, indifference.
I concure with Lolly.
WS,
I never had a reason to hate my xAP. He was never unkind to me. We never promised each other anything and never expressed more than "fondness" for one another. He was sweet, charming and funny with me. Of course, I only saw his best side and that which I wanted to see. I was confused when I first ended because I read a lot of hate and anger toward xAP on this board and I wondered if I was supposed to hate mine, too.
I like what Dee said: << Because you don't harbor ill feelings for your X, you are, in fact, well poised to reach a place of mutual forgiveness and acceptance that is very necessary for your healing and for finding eventual peace.>>
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