New here, very confused...

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2010
New here, very confused...
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Sun, 10-17-2010 - 9:36am

I read alot of your stories and feel like this might be helpful for me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Sun, 10-17-2010 - 10:01am

Welcome, Livestrong.

I am sorry for the pain/confusion you are going through but it's all part of the A aftermath. Now that you have come clean with your H you will have to do some things that will be very challenging, but necessary. The most important first step you need to take is to stop running with XAP and go complete NC. Have you done this yet? It's the only way you are ever going to straighten out

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2009
Sun, 10-17-2010 - 10:01am

Hi Livestrong,

First I want to welcome you here.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-25-2010
Sun, 10-17-2010 - 10:46am

Hello and welcome! Of course, big hugs too! Glad that you're here (to get support), but not glad that you have to go through this. The weekends are a bit slow around here, but hang in there - things will pick up tomorrow/the rest of the week.

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'It may be that when we no longer know what to do,
We have come to our real work,
And that when we no longer know which way to go,
We have begun our real journey'
- Wendell Berry

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
Sun, 10-17-2010 - 11:43am

Hi, LS -

Welcome and big hug.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2010
Sun, 10-17-2010 - 1:11pm

Thanks for the responses and support.