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|Sun, 08-12-2012 - 7:27pm|
First of all, I've been reading here for a year and a half, and it has helped SO MUCH!! THANK YOU to everyone!! Seems that every day I come to read, I see the perfect message I need that day.
After numerous tries, we finally agreed to end 10 days ago. Thoughts have been making me crazy this weekend and I decided to try something different. I went to the "Betrayed Spouses" board to read awhile. All the sudden I feel completely different about all this!
My xap was separated from his wife for a year when we met at work, became friends and then crossed the line. We had PA for 4 months and then his wife decided to come back and try again. It has been a year and they are still 'trying'. I should have backed out completely a year ago, but he is a master of mixed messages and for a long time insinuated she would be leaving. He lost his job last winter, so work is much better without him there.
I thought about his wife the other day and thought about how she would feel if she found out that she's been working on this for a year, and he's still cheating. I can't even imagine the devastation and I certainly don't want to be part of it anymore!
So if you need the fog to clear faster, go over there and read a few posts.