New prospect in the happiness department

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Registered: 12-01-2010
New prospect in the happiness department
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Thu, 01-20-2011 - 1:00pm

hello lovelies

Interesting things happening this week but I'm happy to report that still NC with xAP and I'm honestly not thinking of him much. Luckily he hasn't stopped by or anything recently. I have had a lot of peace of mind on that front lately.

Love, Sunshine Dedicated to living my new life with integrity, truth and positive thoughts! I am worthy of true love and definitely worth the wait!
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Keep us posted! I'm very scared about a "normal" relationship someday...been in h*ll so long...
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Registered: 08-20-2009
Sunshine
I am so happy for you!! I am excited for you and your children. Everyday life, the "mundane" can be so beautiful when you realize the strength and love it provides your soul. Dont be afraid. Revel in his love and your
" commitment" will come naturally. If it was meant to be, love will find its way.

I'm glad you shared. I too want what you have found. You gave me hope.
Have a wonderful day

Awakening
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Registered: 07-17-2004
Hi Sunshine,

I am happy to hear you are nc with xap, that is great news! Sunshine I am single too and I think it's nice that you have a friend where you feel a mutual respect for each other. I also think taking it slow is a very good idea, I wouldn't think to far ahead about
messing it up, T sessions will be very beneficial in the
areas you brought up. I think once you start tackling
these issues the fear will not be as strong. I am three months nc and I see how far I still need to go and attempting another relationship at this point will only set me back personally. Having goog friends in our lifes is a great plus and feeling an inner calm and peace will help see us through our next phases:)
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Registered: 04-20-2009

Sunshine,

As long as you take the time to first build a love-relationship with _yourself_!