New Year, thinking of all of you

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2010
New Year, thinking of all of you
Tue, 01-01-2013 - 8:48pm

Hi all,

Was thinking of all of you, espeically Iddy these last few weeks.  I cannot believe how fast time goes by.  Things are going very well for me being over 2 years since my D-day.  To all of you who are going through your first hours, days, weeks of ending, you will get through this.  It will not happen overnight and without pain but you will feel much better as time goes by and feel relief. You will gain back your dignity, your self respect and feel you have control over your feelings, choices and decisions.

I don't know where I would have been without all the help of everyone here on EAS, especially Iddy.  This is a new year and a time to look forward to positive changes in your lives.  Whatever you are going through, people will be here for you to help you through every step.  Reach out to them as often as you need to.  May 2013 bring you peace, love, joy and happiness within yourselves.


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Community Leader
Registered: 11-04-2012
Thu, 01-03-2013 - 9:11pm

Hiya Renewal!

Nice of you to drop by to say hi and reinforce that people *can* do it with the help of our super dooper peeps here.

I'm really glad to hear that things are going well for you...two years out from a discovery day.  Others knowing that may feel more hopeful, should a discovery day visit upon them, that a marriage can survive even a discovery day.

I wish you and yours a good New Year.


Clarity...who if she had not go over to page two and scrolled down....waayyyyy down, would have missed the opportunity to say hi. :/

Community Leader,

Ending an Affair Support Board

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2009
Wed, 01-02-2013 - 7:05am

Iddy was amazing..... she helped me alot in my first few months - she was an LC expert!

She will always be in my thoughts - and I am so glad we have been able to keep the spirit of EAS alive - I'm sure she would have wanted that. Saying that, the recent board transition has made things tough for all of us, through no fault of anyone here on the board - but I have a feeling with time and a lot of patience, we will see people returning....

Nice to hear from you Renewal

Every recovery is a kind of rebirth