Well, since we all have come to the conclusion that affairs are like addictions, I have likened my New Year's resolutions to mirror the 12 steps that alcoholics use to stop their addictions. With a few modifications:
>>AA claims spiritual progress rather than spiritual perfection. And I think that is a great proclamation. I am making the best of 2010 and giving my life to a higher power to help me get through this.<<
Good for you, M_S. You may be asking a lot of yourself but sometimes this is what it
1. Forgive myself for getting involved in this A 2. Put focus back where it should be; on myself, family and friends. 3. Love myself more so I am able to love back 4. Start journaling 5. Be thankful for what I have. Take time out of day and say thank you! 6. spend more time outdoors 7. look in the mirror and say at least one positive thing about myself per day! NO MORE NEG THOUGHTS! 8. Travel :) Love to travel. 9. Visit with family and friends more! 10. Accept that I am unique and that I am ME!
OH AND NO MORE NC AND NO MORE AFFAIRS!!!!!!! IM DONE :)
Edited 12/27/2009 6:33 pm ET by i_believe_in_myself
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Beautiful~
I love your resolutions. In the words of our x-cl, Lovelystarr, "They're Fab." ;-)
Also, thank you for your kind words re. my CL status. One of my resolutions is to stay here as long as I am mentally functionable.
~Iddy~
Was thinking about this allot today....
1. Keep up the NC.
Lynn, these are great. ((HUGS))
Come on, ladies and gents.
I WANT MORE!!! ;-)
~ Iddy~
~Iddy~
Well, since we all have come to the conclusion that affairs are like addictions, I have likened my New Year's resolutions to mirror the 12 steps that alcoholics use to stop their addictions. With a few modifications:
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Mom~
>>AA claims spiritual progress rather than spiritual perfection. And I think that is a great proclamation. I am making the best of 2010 and giving my life to a higher power to help me get through this.<<
Good for you, M_S. You may be asking a lot of yourself but sometimes this is what it
~Iddy~
Love this Iddy!
I will give it a shot
1. Forgive myself for getting involved in this A
2. Put focus back where it should be; on myself, family and friends.
3. Love myself more so I am able to love back
4. Start journaling
5. Be thankful for what I have. Take time out of day and say thank you!
6. spend more time outdoors
7. look in the mirror and say at least one positive thing about myself per day! NO MORE NEG THOUGHTS!
8. Travel :) Love to travel.
9. Visit with family and friends more!
10. Accept that I am unique and that I am ME!
OH AND NO MORE NC AND NO MORE AFFAIRS!!!!!!! IM DONE :)
Edited 12/27/2009 6:33 pm ET by i_believe_in_myself
Excellent resolutions. Sounds like you mean business. ;-)
(((Hugs))
~ Iddy~
~Iddy~
Good Morning Mom~
I love your post!!!!
Ah... New Year's Resolutions... how can it be time for those already?! Ok, here goes (in no particular order):
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