What a great way to start the New Year...A TWEENER! Woo-hoo!!! Hope this means you will be dispensing all of your wisdom to the newbies that arrive. ;-)
1. To reach out and rebuild bridges that have been damaged throughout A.
2. To make up for lost time with my children and REALLY focus on them...looking in their eyes..really listening to what they have to say..and really BEING there with them mindfully and emotionally.
3. To offset every negative feeling or thought about myself with something positive.
4. Rebuilding my life and looking at the now bleak future as an adventure where anything can happen..who knows..maybe fall in love for REAL someday!
5. To try and learn to live in the PRESENT moment and enjoy the gifts each day brings me.
6. Be THANKFUL ..for all that i DO have!
"Women can fake orgasms but men can fake entire relationships" -Sharon Stone
This year's NY resolutions have special meaning to me. The past two years have been such a turmoil and I am finally regaining peace and getting back my dignity and self-respect.
I love this idea. Not only will it motivate you to do things you enjoy, but each week it will be a surprise; like a mini-adventure you can always look forward to.
I'm so happy to read that your 3rd year was the charm, honey. To be honest, I think it was around that time that I fully healed to. Even though I still see JAM, he was so off my radar when I wasn't at work, like he didn't even exist.
I'm happy you are posting again, Bandk. You were MIA for a couple of weeks and I missed you.
The holiday madness and lack of privacy are the culprits! Lack of privacy is a factor even during normal times - H is home almost everyday. It's difficult to wrap my brain around a post when he is in and out constantly, ;-)
At least you are being realistic. It will take a good year for the muck to drain from the A sewer. We most certainly do ourselves a great deal of damage without even realizing it until the curtain of RL slowly starts to open, exposing the A aftermath.
As I mentioned in another post, the mind-body connection is seriously out of kilter after an A, and for it to function properly again we have to recuperate, reprogram, and then regenerate those parts of ourselves that had malfunctioned. It really is all about starting over again and becoming a better version of old selves.
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What a great way to start the New Year...A TWEENER! Woo-hoo!!! Hope this means you will be dispensing all of your wisdom to the newbies that arrive. ;-)
Love the resolutions and Happy New Year!
~ Iddy~
~Iddy~
Hi Iddy:)
My Resolutions for 2010 are:
1. To reach out and rebuild bridges that have been damaged throughout A.
2. To make up for lost time with my children and REALLY focus on them...looking in their eyes..really listening to what they have to say..and really BEING there with them mindfully and emotionally.
3. To offset every negative feeling or thought about myself with something positive.
4. Rebuilding my life and looking at the now bleak future as an adventure where anything can happen..who knows..maybe fall in love for REAL someday!
5. To try and learn to live in the PRESENT moment and enjoy the gifts each day brings me.
6. Be THANKFUL ..for all that i DO have!
-Sharon Stone
(((Sinking)))
Your resolutions are beautifully scripted and touched my heart. I wish for you the very best in this upcoming new year.
To every one reading this;
~Iddy~
(((IDDY)))
This year's NY resolutions have special meaning to me. The past two years have been such a turmoil and I am finally regaining peace and getting back my dignity and self-respect.
I really like your "Gullable-no-more" at the end of your post. You should change you moniker to that. I like it! ;-)
Great resolutions, heartfelt and goal oriented. Keep up the good work, my friend.
((Hugs))
~ Iddy~
~Iddy~
I rarely make a New Year's resolution because I know I won't keep it. But for some reason this year seems different. The journey of ending the 3yr
Bandk~
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I love this idea. Not only will it motivate you to do things you enjoy, but each week it will be a surprise; like a mini-adventure you can always look forward to.
I'm so happy to read that your 3rd year was the charm, honey. To be honest, I think it was around that time that I fully healed to. Even though I still see JAM, he was so off my radar when I wasn't at work, like he didn't even exist.
I'm happy you are posting again, Bandk. You were MIA for a couple of weeks and I missed you.
((Hugs))
~ Iddy~
~Iddy~
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The holiday madness and lack of privacy are the culprits! Lack of privacy is a factor even during normal times - H is home almost everyday. It's difficult to wrap my brain around a post when he is in and out constantly, ;-)
Hi All,
I too don't make NY resolutions to often b/c I simply know that I probably won't stick to them, like most people don't!
BUT....I'm gonna make some anyway and just keep working hard to reach/maintain them.
1) Get healthy....psychically, emotionally, mentally healthy
2) Learn who I am and what I want....and start making the changes needed to get there.
There are only 2 but the amount of time and work that is needed for each of them is tremendous....so these are what I'm striving for in 2010.
I remember doing this very thing a year ago....and 2009 didn't go so well.
Mickey~
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At least you are being realistic. It will take a good year for the muck to drain from the A sewer. We most certainly do ourselves a great deal of damage without even realizing it until the curtain of RL slowly starts to open, exposing the A aftermath.
As I mentioned in another post, the mind-body connection is seriously out of kilter after an A, and for it to function properly again we have to recuperate, reprogram, and then regenerate those parts of ourselves that had malfunctioned. It really is all about starting over again and becoming a better version of old selves.
One day at a time, one week at a time.
(((Hugs))
~ Iddy~
~Iddy~
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