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| Tue, 03-29-2005 - 1:50pm |
I met this guy two months ago. We had a whirlwind romance. He was upfront in telling me that he was married but was going to get out of the relationship/house. I kept seeing him with the notion of that happening. Well he tells me last weekend that his wife's health is deteriorating (MS) and needs to take care of her. I said that is noble and honorable. But I cannot stay in the relationship. He has told me that he is in love with me. He had found his soulmate and was hoping that I would stay in the relationship. Please tell me I am doing the right thing. I feel bad that I have hurt him but the rules changed. I just read some entries and it seems it is better to end it now before I get too attached to us.Thanks for the advice.

Yolie
No question your doing the right thing for you, the reality is most married men that cheat NEVER leave there wife for the other woman they just string them along as long as possible, you you have personal experience with his wife to know that she is really sick, I ask because we have heard them all her, WIFE cancer, Wife lost leg in accident ETC... mostly pure B/S...very imaginative some of these guys.
When he can hand you a divorce decree or death notice (natural causes only) then and only then should you trust him with your mind and heart.
JMHO
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