Newbie on this part of the board

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Registered: 07-20-2004
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Wed, 10-27-2004 - 9:26am
Dont'know if anyone here knows me from the affair support board but I just posted that I just ended an almost 3 month A with MM. I'm very sad, but I think it was the right thing to do. He tried to leave his W, who is my "friend" and wasn't able to do it like he thought he could. I told him that if he wasn't able to end it than he had to at least try to make an honest go at it and see if he can find happiness with her, without me in the picture. It was very bittersweet, but if he finds his way back to me I'll know it's because he genuinely wants to be with me. And if not, well then I guess it just wasn't meant to be. So now I sit here wondering what to do with my time. Normally he would be here at my house with me right now, and I would have heard from him at least 5 times already. I asked him for NC so that I could move on and so he could too. He wasn't happy with that, but apparently he is respecting it. I miss him soooo much and I feel so empty right now. I guess I'll see what happens, but in the meantime I still have a life to live. Thanks for being here, I'm sure I'll be on here quite often. Any words of wisdom or advice would be appreciated. Thanks!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2004
Wed, 10-27-2004 - 10:13am
Hey Pal

All I can tell you is that time will tell in your situation, if you are emotionally involved and physically chances are it wont end so soon. It all depends on the two of you as to how badly you want it to end. A good suggestion is no contact it helps alot and vent with this board. We are all here to help you.

Good Luck.

Ladbug