Newbies - you need to keep posting!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2009
Newbies - you need to keep posting!
Sun, 04-15-2012 - 2:32am
Hey everyone, newbies especially

It seems we have a handful of new hurting newbies that pop in, but then don't keep writing...

The key to your healing and to staying the course us to come here as often as you like, post all day long if you like - believe me it even helps us a little further along in our journey to read your posts - it keeps us real and reminds us why we ended and are still ended!

I do get saddened that lots of us here use our precious time to help someone and only to find they only were here to fill in the time while they were playing a little NC attention getting game with their AP - but I've been there and I know that coming back here is the best thing I ever did, I would even say in my whole life, be because this place helped me save my life.

Newbies - this is serious! People on the board are in serious situations in their lives where they genuinely have reached rock bottom and are trying to change and save there lives, marriages and futures - please remember this.

Again you are all welcome, and all welcome back (thank god for that!!) but PLEASE KEEP POSTING so we know how you are doing!!! We do care and we do want to support you - this place has some seriously amazing women and men that know what it takes to turn things around - if your willing :-)

Every recovery is a kind of rebirth
Community Leader
Registered: 06-08-2010
Sun, 04-15-2012 - 5:59am
Thanks, WGO for posting this. This place does have some seriously amazing women and men. We can be your place, your safe haven for support through this pain of ending.

come out from hiding and post away!! :)

Hearts <3
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-18-2010
Sun, 04-15-2012 - 8:06am
We can all pick a newbie n pm them. N it's no biggie if they get more than One pm. Just say hello and how r u?

Sometimes we run from what's best for us. Until we can't take it anymore anyway. They usually come back when they hit a A low again. N we all know that will happen.
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
Sun, 04-15-2012 - 9:47am


Try to not get too disappointed when newbies fall off.