The next journey...

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Registered: 09-16-2009
The next journey...
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Tue, 02-23-2010 - 5:29pm

Hello. Me again. Back after a 3 month stretch of NC; where I was rejoicing in

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 6:35pm

HP,

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Welcome back and bravo for making the commitment to end your affair. I started a thread yesterday called, "A New Week, A new start." Read it and see all the other gals that have made this commitment too, as we had a rough week around here with a lot of caving going on. You can hop on the wagon with the rest of the newbies and travel this road together, and of course we are here to support you.

((Hugs))

~ Iddy~

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 01-10-2010
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 6:42pm

HP,


You CAN do this.

Imustenjoypain!
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Registered: 01-16-2010
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 8:35pm

Hello,


I had been following your story as a lurker for awhile...I too am M with a S xAP I work with...in the A 1.5 years now...out for 14 days.


Wanted to welcome you back...I was hoping you would check in.


Hugs,


Misty

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2009
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 9:14pm
I really wasn't sure I wanted things to end ....sickening I know but I think I had to keep in the spirit of feeding this addiction. It takes two to tango, for everyday that was a successful day of nc; it was as is my craving grew more for him. He really is nothing worth risking my family for. Keep lurking I did for two years before I reached out to the boards. I am committed to not being in this fog anymore, I'm getting out I hope my story is a lesson for others, if only I would have listened to my soul back then. I knew it was wrong and nothing good would come from it.........
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Registered: 02-23-2010
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 10:59pm

Hello,


Maybe you could help me i am in the same type of spot your in. I have been having an online romance with some one while i am married to my husband of 4 years but to gether for 6 i meet this guy while have a ruff patch with my husband and we have became very close. I have tryed to do counseling he never seemed to care and now that i am thinking of leaving all the sudden he wants to try. I do care about him but i think i love this guy. Even though we have never meet and never kissed he makes me feel wonderful about my self. I have tryed to let him go but i keep coming back to him Why i am not sure. I guess i am trying to find help or someone to give me an idea on how to find my self and what i want. idk i am so confused. Oh by the way i am like 26 and have had sex with 2 guys in my life if that matters any. I will be reading your storie and praying you get through this this time maybe i can fallow your positive steps along the way.


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Registered: 04-04-2009
Wed, 02-24-2010 - 5:20am

Hi hotpants,

Welcome back!! and it's a warm welcome, I really am happy to see you back, although I'd rather wished for you to have moved away from the A once and for all :-( I know how hard it is to not give in to desire, temptation or whatever it may be.
One day, enough REALLY is enough. You are worth so much more.

We're here for you

Hugs!
HTGO