NO CONTACT!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2009
NO CONTACT!
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Thu, 06-24-2010 - 9:24am

Okay Ladies~


I have not been around much the last few weeks due to the fact work has been nuts and this is the only time I can get on this site.


Ive been able to get on this site this week and im seeing a trend here from some of the newer posters....

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2009
In reply to: lynn0708
Thu, 06-24-2010 - 9:39am

I forgot to add....


BLOCK BABY BLOCK


iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
In reply to: lynn0708
Thu, 06-24-2010 - 9:51am

Yes, Lynn, you are right! Even one-way communication (accepting emails and texts from X) is breaking NC. So is cyber-stalking his facebook and myspace. So is changing your status messages to send cryptic updates to X. So is driving by his house, his office or around his neighborhood - even if you don't expect to see him (but you know in your heart of hearts you're "looking for the clown".) So is pumping information about him from your mutual friends and/or co-workers. And, eventually, one must add to the list.... spending too much time thinking about him instead of redirecting your thoughts is also breaking NC. This is graduate level NC, but there comes a time when an Ender has to expect herself to stop the wallowing and require this level of discipline from herself.

Dee

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2009
In reply to: lynn0708
Thu, 06-24-2010 - 10:12am

Amen Dee!


Very very very well said!


I was soooo guilty of snoopin on the FB page.