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|Tue, 05-06-2003 - 12:42pm|
So this is my second day of NC, I went to court yesterday and finalized my divorce and realized it was the first day of the rest of my life and I do not want his W's left overs. We have been together 3 years, my marriage broke up because of the A and he can not give me anything in return. I really needed him over the weekend and he promised he would be there for support, but NOPE. ALl he has done to me over the past 3 years is emotionally beat me down tomake me feel like I should be thankful for him, he tells me things like no other ma would want me with 2 kids and all men want from me is sex and he loves me....blah blah blah. I realized after court that the last 2 year my life has been on hold with the divorce and being his side thing, he is sooo controlling if I do not answer the phone when he calls me he gets so angry, I am suppose to work and raise my kids, no family functions, no friends nothing. But he can do whatever he wants, call when he wants pick up his phone when he wants, he is unreal. So I texted messaged him yesterday that I am finally single, I will not be the OW anyore when he is single call me. He called my cell I did not pick up then he called me at the office I did not pick up, have not heard from him since. I am sure he will move on to the next. But it hurts it is so hard not to call him, but I have been strong, how do they just move on after three years??