Not cut out for this - it hurts too bad

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Registered: 02-23-2009
Not cut out for this - it hurts too bad
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Wed, 12-02-2009 - 3:46pm

AP and I haven't been doing this very long, though we've been friends for a very long time. He is in this just for sex and so was I, but I think I'm starting to have feelings. I am jealous of his R with his W, and other things. I don't ever tell him that, of course.

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Registered: 10-04-2009
Wed, 12-02-2009 - 5:45pm

Confused -


Welcome to EAS! I'm sure the veterans here will extend a more formal welcome, but I wanted to let you know that you arent' alone and that you have support here.

NC since October 2, 2009.

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Registered: 11-08-2009
Wed, 12-02-2009 - 10:16pm

Confused,


First of all, welcome to EAS. If you decide to get out of your A, it's a great place to get support.


Second...END IT NOW! The longer you stay in it, the more memories you will have and the more ick-moments you'll never be able to undo. I so much wished I'd let him go the FIRST time we "broke up". That was at about 7 months and now 5 years later, I have a lot of pain and memories to deal with.


It only gets harder...

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Registered: 07-24-2005
Wed, 12-02-2009 - 10:40pm

I don't think many people ARE cut out for affairs.