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This is not an extension of MAS!
| Sat, 01-29-2011 - 12:03am |
I am not the best writer on here, but I have been on this board a long time and I have seen people come and go and am struggling as I have read posts today.

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You asked me to go to them directly Iddy, so I will do so.
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
Scarlet, lurkers and would-be enders,
No one should feel afraid to post here once they've made the decision--or the decision was made for them--to end their A. Every regular poster on here has welcomed Newbies with open arms and strong shoulders to cry on. That is not the point of Luvin's post. If you've lurked, then you know that we are indeed a very compassionate bunch. Tough love gets doled out on an as-needed basis because sometimes THAT'S what's needed to help a Newbie over the hump. They may retract, take a few days to let the tough love words sink in, but they almost alway come back with a new perspective and with gratitude.
Please understand that we have all been in affairs. We know
Scarlett,
Please tell me more about this group that does NOTHING but rebate and yell and please direct me to such posts. I have been on this board for well over a year and have not seen a bunch of higher than high attitudes EVER. I am only responded to your post, not because I think it has any merit, with perhaps, one small exception, and that is because I do not post or go on MAS, so I can not speak to that either way. I am responding to you only because if someone else is reading and they are, particularly a lurker, you have just really insulted this board and its members. And as a member, I am going to ask for you to please explain further and show me evidence of such ridicule and instances of berating. And please direct me to what the posters that you felt were being berated and ridiculed stated in their posts that would warrant such a response.
I do not post on MAS. Too painful to even read there and I can post wherever the hell I wish if I so choose.
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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I saw that you have already done that , Luvin. You did good.
((Hugs))
Scarlett,
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Honey, I was not at all offended by your opinion in your original post...just a little miffed re. the ridiculing and berating. If that were going on, posts would be reported as a violation left and right. ;-)
Regardless, I hope in a few days you will reconsider lurking here again. If you are anywhere close to wanting to end your A, this is the place to read. You always have the option to skip over posts that are unsettling to you.
((Hugs))
Luvin- et al my chicas.
xo.
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