This is not an extension of MAS!

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Registered: 01-18-2010
This is not an extension of MAS!
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Sat, 01-29-2011 - 12:03am

I am not the best writer on here, but I have been on this board a long time and I have seen people come and go and am struggling as I have read posts today.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida

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Registered: 01-18-2010
Mon, 01-31-2011 - 7:14pm

I was not referring to you. I believe I wrote this before I even responded to your thread the second time. I am pretty direct and would have you addressed your directly in your thread. I can not keep track of everyone like I used to.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 01-21-2009
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 11:03am

Luvin,

I guess I'm glad you werent directing this at me. I will read thru the posts to better understand whats going on when I have more time (only do this at work mainly). I guess I just assumed with so many others negative towards me it was me. As I remember, I agreed with most of your posts and like your capatain of the ship thing. My is 5 days NC so trying to leave the toxicity myself. But I agree this is not MAS. Thanks.

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Registered: 02-02-2010
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 11:32am

Holy Whoa that was a lot to read... and now I am terribly behind at work :)

This is not the first time a post like this has been started and it won't be the last. As the peeps cycle in and out, it's a nice reminder about what this board is for and what it is NOT for. Over the past year, we've seen many limboists come and go- and we get it because many of us lived in limboland for a long time. The moral of the story, for me is, until you are ready to end it and ready to accept the support to end it, you should remain in lurkdome. And that is okay. If you haven't ended it, you aren't an ender and shouldn't be posting here. Pretty simple really. I feel bad that some feel ridiculed and berated. I have been around a long time and I have never seen that. Many times hard doses of truth are seen as ridicule, and that is mostly from the side of those who don't want to accept the truth.

At any rate, I am sorry I haven't been around to deepen the vet pool. I really hope I can be a more consistent presence here to support the boundaries and goals of this board fully.

Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
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Registered: 06-15-2006
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 11:44am

TU,

Perhaps if you documented your statement:

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 11:48am

Clearguidance,

Im curious.

If in some instances an Affair is NOT SO HARD TO GET OUT OF...as an addiction....

Why would people need any support or a board anyway?

Ive gone through breakups that I surely didnt seek a board out for.

I dont understand the BATTLE here.

ITS CLEAR THAT LUVIN WAS ASSERTING OUR HEALTHY EAS BOUNDARY.

Michelle

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 06-15-2006
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 11:53am

"Why would people need any support or a board anyway?

Ive gone through breakups that I surely didnt seek a board out for."

Because they are lonely and sad, and could use someone to talk to.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-29-2008
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 12:00pm
Clearguidance,

Thank you thank you! My point this only functions as a addictions board! And if one doesnt admit that then they are out. Now my thought is if this were a addictions only board then ivillage should have certified approved counselors leading and moderating. But it seems this board has a CL only. I have not seen a CM. So I guess the patients do run the asylum so to speak.
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Registered: 04-20-2009
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 12:05pm

Ok, that's enough.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-29-2008
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 12:07pm
I'm not your peep obviously but I flagged this post 3 times and nothing happened. Hence no CM.....
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Registered: 07-29-2010
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 12:08pm
You know....this tread was enough to almost run me off a few days ago...but that's it! I'm throwing in the towel. I was hoping it would just die...and die quick, but that apparently is not going to happen.

Enough already! For sh*t sakes.... The pot has been stirred and the kettle called black.

I know I don't have much pull around here so maybe someone else will step up and say something...

For now...Foggy has left the building.
I do not know what is next in life...but at least I know what is NOT!

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