This is not an extension of MAS!

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Registered: 01-18-2010
This is not an extension of MAS!
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Sat, 01-29-2011 - 12:03am

I am not the best writer on here, but I have been on this board a long time and I have seen people come and go and am struggling as I have read posts today.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 12:09pm

Do we need to take a poll of PEOPLE HERE who Liken the A to an addiction vs. something they can just break and get away from themselves?

Ive never been to MAS - so Im presuming from whats been said that there, you will get support while in that relationship.

Since this is an ENDING board - the advice given here is based on ENDING IT.

If it were EASY...OR SOMETHING SOMEONE COULD DO ON THEIR OWN...

they wont come here when they end it.

Collectively the advice here - is similar to ending "addictions" but let me tell you...having visited a specific group for "codependency" issues (which is more TAILORED to a specific addiction) the vibe is DAY AND NIGHT...and I much more enjoy the time I put in LEARNING and SHARING here.

Because it's not so specifically DRIVEN to addiction shedding - but attacking ALL ISSUES IN THE AFFAIR.

Responsibility

Shame

Low Self Esteem

Taking control of your life back

Proper focus

Pure Love & emotional support when I slip back into foggy thinking

Romanticizing

Idealism

Distraction

Triggers

Re Discovering Me

Id say Im much more supported as

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 01-21-2009
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 12:10pm

well said

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Registered: 07-29-2010
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 12:10pm
Sorry Dee, we crossed posted. Taurus's Unit! Hope I avoided the miffing... just was fed up.

And yeah...she is bossy...deal with it
I do not know what is next in life...but at least I know what is NOT!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2010
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 12:12pm

because it was an important issue to me...

I felt the NEED to respond...

but Im going to BOW OUT NOW as well.

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 04-01-2010
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 12:24pm
Just one teensy weensy hopefully helpful peep from one of your peeps, Dee, then I'll say no more.

Just wanted to remind everyone there is another board, After the Affair, that may be more helpfull to some. An ending board with more latitude for those who find EAS not to their liking.

Peace out.

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Registered: 06-15-2006
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 12:42pm

Dee,

Huh, what a curious response.

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Tue, 02-01-2011 - 1:28pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 1:30pm

Hi everyone,

Just a friendly reminder -- as the board guidelines state, this community is meant for people who have ended their affairs and are looking for guidance and support.

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Registered: 01-21-2009
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 8:38pm

This is a support board for addicts?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Wed, 02-02-2011 - 8:59am

Hello,

This board is a support community for members who

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