Not so easy... he stopped at my house

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2004
Not so easy... he stopped at my house
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Tue, 06-22-2004 - 11:20am
I was so happy not to be able to contact him. no number, no contact. Well, he stopped in last night. AT my house around 9:30. said he's sorry for hurting me, and he loves me. Gave me his new number. WHY GET IT CHANGED IF HE IS GOING TO GIVE IT TO ME???? I don't get it. What is going on here? I was ready to move on. Why won't he let me. My friends think he's stalking me. WASSUP? I don't get it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2004
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 12:48pm
Did you tell him you didn't want his new number? If you haven't memorized it, just "lose" his new phone number. Of course that's easy to say. I'm sorry to hear that he dropped back in your life, I know that makes things difficult for you. You won't be able to heal unless you move forward without him.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2003
Sun, 06-27-2004 - 6:39pm
I have a similar problem. Your ex doesn't want to let go. He still loves you.The idea of not seeing/hearing from you is probably killing him.

Yes, he stopped by your house but nothing happened. In his mind,as long as he doesn't touch you, he's not cheating.

I want to move on with my life too but my ex won't let me either. He can't understand why I want no contact. I would be happy just knowing we are still friends but He keeps wanting us to meet somewhere. Says he just wants to "SEE" me.

I think it is dishonest but he just can't see my point of view.

Is this the first time he contacted you?


iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Sun, 06-27-2004 - 7:37pm


They don't want to see your point of view it is not that there unable to.

I think it is more a matter of having there side dish when they want it not so much any great love, when you love someone you respect there wishs and what will make them happy not just yourself.

F