Not sure what to do...

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2003
Not sure what to do...
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Mon, 07-19-2004 - 1:49pm
I have been reading this board for months but have never posted. I will try to make this short.

I started having an affair a year ago with a coworker that I have known for 13 years. He started it. It started out not too serious but his W announced she was leaving in September, she has done this before. Then things started getting serious, we fell in love and talked about me moving in with him when W left. Well she found out about us and changed her mind, then said she was leaving again, then changed her mind again. A few months went by and him and I decided we would continue the A but not much happened. W bought a house in April and moved out last weekend. We weren't together until May and then again 2 weeks I finally went to his place and he told me he got called out to work. I check that when I got back from holiday and his story didn't hold up and I called him on it. He got mad at me for checking up and said we would discuss it later. He didn't and I finally wrote him on Friday and told him we discuss it our it is over. I haven't hear from him, nor seen him at work. But he did park right beside me today!! On Friday I went on a fishing expidition and checked his cell phone bill from when he was out of town and found some funny calls late at night. I called that number and it was a girl. Turns out his is fooling around with a girl from the place he went to work for 3 weeks. I checked his odometer on Friday and then again this morning and he went to see her.

I am going to call him up on it, but I want to let her know that he has been sleeping with both of us.

Is that the right thing to do??

Confused.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 1:56pm


SOUNDS LIKE TIME FOR A DOG ALERT