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Wed, 01-26-2005 - 2:49pm
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Edited 2/10/2005 11:05 am ET ET by littlesoul2

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In reply to: littlesoul2
Thu, 01-27-2005 - 5:23pm

Little - I am in the City a lot. Maybe we could meet for a drinky poo sometime. My favorite is Calle Ocho on 82nd and Columbus. GREAT mojitos :)

Yes, DH does know and has known since Halloween. In fact, last week DH took me to dinner for my birthday (and bought me a really nice present - GUILT) and after a glass of wine, we started having the conversation. It was awful - I felt so bad. He said he wanted me out by February 1st! But then the next morning I apologized and said I wasn't ready. Oy, when is this rollercoaster going to stop?

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Thu, 01-27-2005 - 6:01pm
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Edited 2/10/2005 11:09 am ET ET by littlesoul2
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Thu, 01-27-2005 - 6:24pm

He said that that's just fine, but this is all getting old. He is sick of the back and forth, which I can't blame him for. Yeah, move over because I am sitting right next to you on that fence. Are you in therapy? Like I said, when I am talking to my therapist, she makes everything sound so clear. That's why I think in my heart of hearts that I have to leave, eventually. I've done this to DH in the past (though never had an A until now) and if I manage to get through this one, whose to say in another 4 years it won't happen again? That's not fair to him, either. I think we just want it to be easy - shake hands and say "good luck to ya!" But that won't be how it will be. It's never easy to hurt someone you love, and it shouldn't be either. Think about that - my therapist said she would be worried about my mental health if I WASN'T so depressed. So this is all normal, it just SUCKS!

Would love to meet. I will stay in touch and let you know when I will be in the City again.

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