NUTMEG"S PARTY "WHAT I DON"T MISS"

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-02-2004
NUTMEG"S PARTY "WHAT I DON"T MISS"
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 12:23pm

Happy Friday Ladies!!!!
I am throwing a party today! You are all invited, and I am shamefully ripping this thread from someone about 2 months ago, but damn it was fun and it helps to put it all back in check!*Oh, and I missed my name at the top of the posting board! J/K

What I Don't Miss:
1. Shaving my legs every day Monday through Friday (we worked together)
2. Spending every day M-F in coordinating frilly panty/bra sets (i mean a girl needs at least 1 day a month in cotton/ mismatched comfy skivvies)
3. Checking my email every 2 minutes like an obsessed freak
4. Wondering when he would have the time to fit me in
5. Not eating, and then working out for 2 hours every day to be something that he might want more
6. lieing to myself
7. lieing to everyone else
8. all the time i spent away from my young son to go get nookie (and it wasn't that great!)
9. not putting my own needs first, as a woman, as a person, as a sexual being
10.(and i am shamefully ripping this one off as well but i love it so much)
Not feeling like some guys free hooker!!!!!

***Sorry for the plaguerizm of old post to whoever posted before! But it needed to be done again!*****

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2005
Fri, 01-28-2005 - 12:31pm

LOL - great post.

Single ladies - do numbers 1, and 2 anyway, cause you never know when a cute SINGLE guy might show up...teehee.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2005

Hey Nuttmeg!

Wow, pity party yesterday, now a what I don't miss party? Count me in! :)

I don't miss lying to my DH

I don't miss worrying about getting caught

I don't miss checking my email every 30 seconds waiting for an email from him (or a reply to mine!)

I don't miss shaving my bikini area almost every day (in-grown hairs - ouch!)

I don't miss wondering whether he really likes me or he's "just not that into me"

I don't miss getting my upper lip waxed every 2 weeks - again, ouch!

Okay, I feel better now. Thanks Meg!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-10-2004
Here's what I don't miss:
- Wondering every day if he is going to stop by or not and sitting in tears when I am disappointed that he doesn't
- Feeling rejected every time he doesn't call, doesn't come over, doesn't have enough time to spend with me because he has to rush home to his W
- Sneaking around, finding places to go to lunch where no one will see us, not being able to go out in public together like a regular couple
- My entire day and whether I feel happy or sad dependant on whether he contacts me or not
- Constant harrassment from his W
Although there are many things I do miss, the things I listed above are what keep me from going back. I made a promise to myself to only move forward with my life now.