Obsession = Vulnerbility

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Obsession = Vulnerbility
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Mon, 05-03-2004 - 1:41am
the last thing i have to say tonight is this: consider, that your obsession= vulnerability.

think about it.

Clarice

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Mon, 05-03-2004 - 8:16am
That's so true Clarice. Also I think the moments I've felt the most obsessed re OM were manifestations of the very weakest parts of me. I look back on the last days we were together and I would check my email over and over again and continually send him messages frantic for a response. Now I'm so much healthier (and strong) - checking my email in the morning and throughout the day and normal intervals.

HOWEVER when I ran into OM last week I noticed myself checking again obsessively - not like I used to, but definitely more frequently - then it occured to me how unhealthy emotionally I was while in the affair. A healthy relationship should strengthen you, not weaken you.