Oh My Gosh
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Oh My Gosh
| Wed, 04-21-2010 - 1:42pm |
So for those of you who don't really know my story....A started in 9/08 and lasted until about 3/09. Had LC after that until Jan, 2010 and then complete NC. My H only knows that I had a guy at work interested in me and I was tempted so I left that job. It was enough to scare the hell out of him and he became the best H anyone could ask for. So here I've been going about my business, working, enjoying my H and family and completely forgetting about xap. A couple of weeks ago I posted about a friend of mine telling me that an acquaintance had told her that I cheat on my H (that conversation took place a year ago). So with the help of all of you I blew it off since it was so long ago. This morning I come home from the gym and see that there is a message on my answering machine from some woman. Here is what it says: "Hi, I just saw your wife at the gym, and I think she has something going on with some guy there, anyway, I'll try to catch you at work". Wow, I was floored! I didn't even speak with anyone at the gym. I always wear my ipod and get my workout in without talking to anyone because I'm so pressed for time. My xap doesn't even go to my gym. I immediately called my H and let him listen to the message. He was concerned. I told him I have no idea who this could have been. So what do I do with this? I'm shaking all over. I hope she does contact him at work so I can get to the bottom of this. Man, just when things were going so well.

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Eh, too little information. Do you know who this woman is?
Did she call the office? Treat it like you're not guilty; because, you're NOT.
Stay strong and united with your man. Let us know how it goes.
Best,
Dee
Wow. Why would some person you don't know call your home phone and leave a message like that, when you don't even talk to anyone at the gym? It all seems very strange. Good for you for telling your H, though, so that you can deal with it together.
Do you have ANY idea who it might be or why they'd make such a call?
Let us know as things progress.
Sending you positive vibes...
Gal
That really SUCKS!
I would be floored too!
Do people not have enough going on in their own lives?! Really - that's so pathetic. I could never imagine thinking that was a good freaking idea. It scares me when people make assumptions about other people's lives - gosh I have had women as clients whose abusive partners found out they were having As and proceeded to deal with it by beating the crap out of the woman/women.
Honestly ... shaking my head.
Keep strong. We are all here for you.
TU.
"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
— Maya Angelou
Wow, that is some scary stuff BUT it isn't true! So keep your eyes and ears open. I can't remember if your XAP was M or not?? If so could it be his W?
Hey AAI - I am going to say something totally off here, and I hope you won't get offended - but do you think your husband may be having an affair? The whole incident is just beyond odd. Is your husband totally honest with you? I mean you really WERE at the gym, so most likely it's not somebody just got a wrong number. But he denies knowing who this woman is and denies her calling him at work? Something does not add up here.
XOXO
Gone
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