OK, I GIVE IN TO B&W !!!!!!!!

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Registered: 01-21-2009
OK, I GIVE IN TO B&W !!!!!!!!
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Wed, 02-02-2011 - 2:15pm

Hello anyone,

OK, OK I give in to Block and Walk. I have been 6 days NC and don't miss the drama at all. Feeling better about myself and moving on. AND SHE TEXTS ME, "Now you and W can have the kids you wanted". I did not respond. How the hell do I block my phone? We don't FB. Can I block my own

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Registered: 04-01-2010
Wed, 02-02-2011 - 5:29pm

Amex,

Welcome to EAS!!! I will be happy to play marbles with you. :smileywink:

Seriously, you are going to feel such a sense of relief by blocking. It's a mental thing as well as a physical thing. It creates a well-needed barrier.

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Registered: 04-11-2010
Wed, 02-02-2011 - 5:58pm
Hi Amex
A huge congratulations for this huge step. Yes you can block on email and depending on provider you also can on ph. I haven't been able to ( contract in H name) but I made it clear that I didn't want to hear from him- and I haven't.
I can't say that this has been easy - I think everyone will agree you will have rough days. The things that helped me were a few mantras.
' NC = No New Hurts"
"This was ALWAYS going to end"
"I don't have to lie anymore- to my family or myself"

Also read the healing library!!!!!

But I am here to tell you that IT WORKS!! The pain ends and you start to feel sooooo much better than you ever did in the A.

We are here for you.

Iggy x
You are what you consistently do
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Registered: 02-02-2010
Wed, 02-02-2011 - 6:05pm

Yay. And welcome! You've taken the first important step to ensuring NO NEW HURTS and beginning the long process of healing yourself and rebuilding your M. Congratulations. Each time I see a newbie making this step, it makes my heart sing that another will escape for the awful, soul sucking snare of an A. Wahoo.

Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
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Registered: 12-31-2009
Wed, 02-02-2011 - 8:28pm

A big cyber HIGH FIVE to you, DM!

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Registered: 07-17-2004
Wed, 02-02-2011 - 10:20pm
Amex, blocking calls, texts and emails was one of the best actions I did for myself. Before that I was staying engaged in the drama which was a really sad place to be in. I am digging myself out of that sad place slowly but surely and I am so happy for you that you are blocking and walking, what an excellent step you are taking. I like that you are giving your marriage your full focus without outside distractions, if you build an even better marriage where both you and your W communicate and respect each other than you won't need any type of drama anymore :)
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Registered: 08-10-2010
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 10:07am

Can't wait to hear all about it! :)

How are you feeling today?

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Registered: 01-21-2009
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 10:45am

Garfy,

Thanks for the support. Update:. Did it myself on yahoo and also was able to block it on Verizon's website. No calls or texts. I have my soul back after 2 years, 295 days, 17 hours and 8 minutes. But who's counting? TY TY.

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Registered: 01-21-2009
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 10:46am

Lolly,

Thanks for the well wishes. Verizon blocks FIVE numbers. So I blocked her hom and cell. Soul back after 2/12 years.

Amexdm

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Registered: 01-21-2009
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 10:48am

Nvr,

I am glad what I did helped you. Are you blocked from all other comm contacts? We CAN DO THIS TOGETHER.

Amexdm

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Registered: 01-21-2009
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 11:00am

Katn,

Thanks for sharing, your story sounds alot like mine. She always said we'd end as friends and keep in touch etc but I really see no point. In fact she used the exact words "always be a part of each other's lives" more than once. I was like what does that mean exactly but she could never really explain. You are 10 days NC. Me 8. How are you feeling about it?

Amexdm