OK, I GIVE IN TO B&W !!!!!!!!

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Registered: 01-21-2009
OK, I GIVE IN TO B&W !!!!!!!!
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Wed, 02-02-2011 - 2:15pm

Hello anyone,

OK, OK I give in to Block and Walk. I have been 6 days NC and don't miss the drama at all. Feeling better about myself and moving on. AND SHE TEXTS ME, "Now you and W can have the kids you wanted". I did not respond. How the hell do I block my phone? We don't FB. Can I block my own

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Registered: 06-17-2010
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 11:10am

Welcome Amex! Glad you saw the light and glad you're here. From now on, if you feel the urge to contact her (and believe it or not, you probably will) read and post here first! The best way to show her you cared is to completely leave her alone now and rebuild your life. :)

Bodhi

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Registered: 08-25-2010
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 11:33am
can I like this post? ivillage needs a like button.
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Registered: 08-10-2010
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 11:59am

No no, no one's counting :P

Believe it or not, my xAP used the words "be a part of each other's lives forever" line too... But nope, it's

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Registered: 02-02-2010
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 1:20pm

I think every xap has uttered those words: "in each other's lives forever." Right. I can tell you that my xap is NOT in my life and will never be again. I have often wondered what the heck he meant by that and realize it was just another lie said to keep me hanging on for as long as I did. That phrase

Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
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Registered: 01-31-2011
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 1:39pm

Yes, the only contact we had was through work IM and email.

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Registered: 01-21-2009
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 3:34pm

Garfy,

No, I know you guys aren't counting, it was me.

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Registered: 08-10-2010
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 3:41pm

Amex, I was just kidding around with the day counting thing, that's all :)

I'm so glad you feel you have your life back and I'm so glad you consider us your friends :)

How did your weekend getaway go?

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Registered: 01-21-2009
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 4:53pm

Always,

Thanks. I almost hit the floor laughing with the marbles comment! I brought my ball bacl to the field:) I am looking forward to great future as W as she has made changes and its time for me to put A to rest. It just took longer than it should have. Which I totally blame myself.

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Registered: 01-21-2009
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 5:00pm

Gar,

Weekend went awesome (always does). Went to casino and had drinks and lots of fun. Many more planned. This is the woman

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Registered: 08-10-2010
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 5:52pm
That's awesome :)
How many years you've been married?