Okay Folks, I need your opinion!!!!!

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Registered: 11-13-2003
Okay Folks, I need your opinion!!!!!
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Wed, 03-24-2004 - 6:55pm
XMM called me a couple days ago, and asked if we were over. I told him that I can't do this anymore and that I can't handle the guilt of it all. I love him. but I need to just get over this and move on like he suggested I do several weeks ago. (too that statement he said he didn't want me to get over it and move on). He told me this...

I love you and am in love with you

Need you in my life for the long haul.

He states that he has been faithful to me since this affair started. (Remember, now that his marriage is not good!!!)

He feels that we should commit to each other and he feels committed to me already. and he feels I'm afraid of committment).

He has loved me for a long time. and he can't let me go, no matter how many times I run off from him, being guilty feeling for attempting to have s**. He won't give up on me.

Basically the bottom line is that he is always gonna be part of my life forever. I know that. I love him. But I am scared.

He asked if he could just see me this weekend, if it's only just to hug me, and that's all. He knows that I am stubborn and that I won't cave that easliy. That man has been after me for about 2 1/2 years now and as little sex he has had from me and as many times I have up and left him hanging, he still comes back. The times we have had NC has killed me and I told him that.

Do I meet him?

Is it really love for him or is he just really wanting S** from me.

What do you think???

And THANK YOU so much in advance for your support and opinion!!!!!!!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 03-28-2004 - 12:03am
I hope you're getting through the weekend ok. Hang in there.


Edited 3/28/2004 1:12 am ET ET by iamdelightful

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