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| Mon, 12-08-2003 - 8:34pm |
1. had no freaking idea how to handle money. Knows absolutely nothing about investing, but claims these get rich quick schemes will make him rich someday.....Was always complaining about not being able to get by, but when he did have some extra money he urinated it away, or bought booze.
2. which brings up the drinking...this man was so clearly an alcoholic but will deny it until the day he dies. He went to AA and made fun of the other people thre, because they have a real problem, he doesn't.
3. Smokes...he kept that a secret for a long time because i do not like smoking. (although i've been known to smoke a few at social functions myself...i know i know, i'm a hippocrite)
4. we had great sex, being that he was a sex addict I woulnd't expect any less from him...LOLOLOL...oh, except for the first time we were together and he finished...um...in his shorts...before we started......
5. okay okay, that last one was personal and totally in bad taste. He passed gas alot too...he was the human gas bag...
6. lazy...he would say "i'm gonna run tomorrow morning"..yeah okay , as he slept in til noon and then ran to his car to go to 7-11 and buy cigarettes.
7. LIAR LIAR LIAR...thats all i gotta say. The man is a pathological liar. Lives on a different planet then the rest of us.
Okay i can go on and on, lets give someone else a turn.

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Knowing these things as you've posted, then why was it so difficult to end the affair? And what does it say to you about your ability to choose someone to spend time with?
Iamdelightful posted a similar thread topic this past fall and I really don't understand the positive effect this serves for anyone, then or now.
We all have unattractive traits and live in glass houses, don't we? So why throw stones?
Just wondering.....
cl-nre
I am sure that XOM can sit and write 5 negative things about me, I do not claim to be perfect...this is a form of therapy, and quite honestly, it made me laugh and right now I'll take any laughs where i can get them....
sorry if I have offended you.
Jazzdiva
#1 he has a fat belly
#2 he has a bald spot on the top of his head
#3 he was an alcoholic but wouldn't admit it
#4 he has such long nose hairs I would have to tell him to cut them
#5 (Ok and my not so good in taste on so forgive me) I think he wanted someone to have anal sex with him ok what I actually mean is he wanted it done to him. He told me I should play there with my fingers and try new things. EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW NONONO
Ok there are a few I am sleepy so I may add more the rest of the week.
Cali~
1. The guy could stand to lose a few pounds. When he first sent me a picture (keep in mind this was a long-distance, former high school love thing), my honest reaction was disappointment. However, I was so in love with him at the time, I told myself it didn't matter.....but let's be honest, it does!
2. He was totally into this lesbian fantasy thing. He would often bring up the subject and try to get me going, ask me about my cute friends, etc. Sorry, but that's just not my cup of tea!
3. The man is moody as hell!!
4. He is obsessed with a particular college football team (and he didn't even attend that school!). OK, well, he did graduate from a commuter branch of it, but that's not really the same thing. He acts like his life depends on whether his beloved team wins or loses. I say, get over it!
5. Last but not least, the guy makes his own beef jerky and likes watching racing on TV. Need I say more?!?
That was fun! Thanks for the laugh She's --
Where is the good in that? And how is it supportive?
~Love~
So here goes:
1. He was desperatly in denial about loosing his hair... he used to jell his hair..to make it look like more hair...
2. He is the master of the double standard... women should be faithful while men can play the field..
3. He dosn't read anything besides mens health magazine..seriously inhibits.. thoughtful debate..
4. He only wears name brand clothes and pays strict attention to labels...He's expensive to please...
5. He hates eggs and milk! How could I ever cook for this man? I love eggs... I LOVE OMLETS... I could never go without!
FIVE BAD THINGS ABOUT MYSELF:
1. I fell for a married man
2. I fell for a married man
3. I fell for a married man
4. I fell for a married man
5. I fell for a married man
LUCKY FOR ME, these are all things I don't have to live with ANYMORE.
HA!
KATJA
Jazzdiva
This thread also reminds me of what my therapist told me after a 2 hour session of listening to my complaints about how alcohol was making my husband sick and he can't see it!
She told me that nothing will change until I realize that *I'm* the one that's actually sick. Understanding and accepting her explanation has not been an easy undertaking for me but I know it's my only route to change and eventual peace within myself.
Just my 2¢.
Wishing all of you a speedy ride to the finish line!
1.Workaholic doesn't come CLOSE to describing this man.He burns both end of the candle without ever stopping.I loved him enough to deal with it but he never FAILED to let me know he would NEVER change that for ME.
2.Was so damn vain it was unreal!!If a hair on his head was out of place,he wouldn't even walk into a store without a cap on.He'd say he couldn't let the "girls" see him like that.What a crock of sh%T!!!!
3.Was flirty beyond belief.Especially with his female"friends",and right in front of me.I guess he thought that was okay but it hurt me everytime.I don't think he honestly knows how to treat a woman.
4.His way was right and yours was wrong....ALL THE TIME!
My God,i'm sitting here reading this and wondering what the heck i ever saw in Him...Damn!
And this is only a drop in the bucket of what i hated.
5.Acted so immature at times...even going out and hanging with 20 yr old female "friends...he was almost 40!!!!!!...yeah RIGHT!
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