okay..this is what is REALLY bugging me or why can't I write him, part 2

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okay..this is what is REALLY bugging me or why can't I write him, part 2
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Wed, 10-27-2010 - 7:13am

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Registered: 04-01-2010

Something to think about, my dear friend....you've mentioned in the past that his W is overweight and unattractive. Could your mental competition with her have anything to do with you losing weight and gaining a better self image? Is this making you feel better about yourself? What "feel goods" are you getting out of this

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Alice,

Here is some information about how to overcome obsessive thoughts:

http://easycalm.com/blog/category/the-gift/

I’m glad you are benefiting from the support on the board. However, it is never to take place of a GOOD T.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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A big shout out for YOGA!! It is amazing, the things it can do for your mind, body and spirit. I started about two months ago and love it far more than I ever imagined. I recommend for everyone.
Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Registered: 06-17-2010

Oh for the love of God woman, you are going to give me gray hair. I've already had a couple and I pluck them out, but if you keep this up, I'm going to send you the bill from my colorist. And she ain't cheap. You have had several great responses. But I know first hand how thick that skull is of yours. You got it now, right? And yes, Always is right - you NEED yoga. A lot of yoga.

I'm very glad you are posting all this here - you are doing the right thing, so keep it up. And THE most important thing is to never, ever under any circumstances, contact JAM ever again.

You don't need a rubber band around your wrist, you need a freaking bungee cord - snap that puppy every time you think about him!!!

Bodhi

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Registered: 10-17-2010

lice,

Could it be 1) you have trouble accepting it is over and acvtually believing this?

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