OM - Imed me after 1 month of NC !

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Registered: 07-02-2004
OM - Imed me after 1 month of NC !
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Thu, 04-21-2005 - 5:14pm

Hi

I hope everyone is doing ok . Not a bad week for me I must say . . I had a long
work week . Anyway , OM imed me on Monday talked for about 40 min. I dont get
that - why do they do that ! He wanted to end it !

I dont know matbe reading to much into this . It helps when I dont have to see him at work and this week was one of those weeks - thats a good thing ! Next week will be more difficult . I believe I am working w/ him 2-3 days .

Do we go back to ignoring each other .......GTG - NNJ

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Registered: 04-04-2005
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 5:24pm

Love

"SOME" XOM do just to see if they can still pull your chain, I think they enjoy know that they still can effect you emotionally, gives them an EGO\POWER trip.

Weather you ignor him or not is up to you but I think you would be doing yourself a favor bt keeping him at arms length and retaining the power in your life....keep on trucking don't let him derail you now for his own satisfaction.

JMHO

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 5:49pm
I know in my case, my exMM would contact me after time had passed, and that was hard. It was as if enough time had passed to make me forget the bad stuff..and then I'd be drawn back in. Don't let it happen!