OM - Pathetic??? LOL

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Registered: 01-02-2004
OM - Pathetic??? LOL
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Fri, 06-04-2004 - 5:49pm
Well, I have an update that is good news for the end of my A. OM is turning into a pathetic, semi-nuisance who is now resorting to begging to get me to return his calls and see him.

Long story short - I saw him last weekend at a party for a mutual friend. He was with his fiancee', I was with H. We really didn't talk, but he kept staring at me, made a few "in" jokes, and flirted with me when we happened to be alone at one point. I was nice but didn't really engage in the flirting.

Then, this week, I received a barrage of e-mails/calls/test messages all requesting that I either call him or go to meet him at the bar. I declined the offers, stating that I was "busy". He even drove past my house on one night and called me from his cell to say that he was "in the neighborhood".

As in love/lust as I thought I was with OM, this is all beginning to make him look pathetic. In one e-mail, he said that he hoped his constant offers and attention would eventually wear me down to go and meet him. LOL

And, I have been happier with H lately. Can't put my finger on it, but it seems like we are communicating more, and that he is spending more time with me. This might not last, mind you, but it is sure making ending the A easier, especially given OM's lastest behavior.

Anyway, I just thought I'd post this because I am feeling good and strong lately. To everyone who is ending an A...hang in there...it WILL get better!

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Registered: 10-16-2003
Sat, 06-05-2004 - 10:11am
HOLD ON TO THAT!i'm so proud of you!
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Registered: 03-16-2004
Sat, 06-05-2004 - 4:09pm
This is great to hear, not only because it is good that you are feeling so strong and moving on, but also because it is a good reminder as to WHY it is a bad idea to be the one to break contact and continue to bug the X -- it's a turn-off! :)

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Registered: 05-29-2004
Sun, 06-06-2004 - 1:47am
Good for you girl. I admire your strength to not enter into the act again. I'm in the process of ending my A this week & you give me inspiration. Keep smiling & hold your head up.

maybekatie, you are a very switched on person. Everything you write is speaking volumes to me.

Little K