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Registered: 01-30-2006
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Sat, 11-06-2010 - 8:34am

I can't even believe this.

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Registered: 08-30-2010
In reply to: whatiswrongwithme
Sat, 11-06-2010 - 9:01am
Delete delete delete! What's the saying they have on here? Walk and block! Do it now. Please for you. He's selfish for contacting you. He's trying to rope you in again. Been there twice and I know it's easier to go back to him then walk away but I think of all the hurt I had gone through being with him and could have avoided if I walked away the first time. Be strong. You can do it I know it and deep down so do you. Holding your hand.
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Registered: 01-30-2006
In reply to: whatiswrongwithme
Sat, 11-06-2010 - 9:21am

Thanks Cait.

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Registered: 10-17-2007
In reply to: whatiswrongwithme
Sat, 11-06-2010 - 9:21am
Cait.. ... I dont know if i would have heen strong enough to delete without reading it either so you won't hear it from me! And I'm almost 8 weeks out! But I'm pretty sure the next one will say.. "I knew it was you the whole time!!" Lol!! Delete that one without reading it.
Can you block him from your work email?

Chechi
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Registered: 10-17-2007
In reply to: whatiswrongwithme
Sat, 11-06-2010 - 9:22am
Oops meant WWWM!!! So many names!!
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Registered: 01-18-2010
In reply to: whatiswrongwithme
Sat, 11-06-2010 - 9:25am
WWWM,
I have an article for u to read. Please look for it. I have to look for it. The article is very helpful...it will help you understand the type of man you were dealing with. Help you heal. It's very good. I am off to look for it.
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 11-22-2009
In reply to: whatiswrongwithme
Sat, 11-06-2010 - 9:34am

Sweetie,

When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. You've got this wrapped up already when you dumped his sorry arse. :smileywink: So now.....he

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 01-18-2010
In reply to: whatiswrongwithme
Sat, 11-06-2010 - 9:41am
Narcissist serial cheaters

A typical reason for infidelity is that one spouse may be a narcissist who often becomes a serial cheater. The narcissist is most likely to have many affairs and will pursue anyone they can manipulate with their boundless words and actions.
Narcissists are self-absorbed and tend to be highly charming. They have a constant need for admiration. They view all events in terms of how the events impact them and them alone. They are master manipulators and feel an “emotional high” with each new conquest. Their behavior is often impulsive which can appear exciting. These individuals lack compassion unless it helps them achieve their goals. They are unwilling to see or consider anything from another person's viewpoint. They will continue the emotional control with a target until the relationship becomes too burdensome.
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 04-20-2009
In reply to: whatiswrongwithme
Sat, 11-06-2010 - 11:25am

BAAAARRRRRF!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2006
In reply to: whatiswrongwithme
Sat, 11-06-2010 - 12:26pm
Wow. That says it all. How humiliating that I was so desperate that I allowed myself to believe the lies. I knew it all along yet when I tried to break it off his pleas and charming words made me act stupid. I really am a smart woman! It was all about that farking ego. And I must admit to mine to. All of your advice...everyone of you has helped me open my eyes to what I knew but did not want to believe. I would love to post his pathetic email to his new/fake victim. He sent her pics and asked 3 times if she found him attractive. Swho cares but it was funny in a sad way.
Now to deal with real issues. I hope my pathetic story helps someone too. Great article....thanks for sharing and to all who've reached out.
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Registered: 04-01-2010
In reply to: whatiswrongwithme
Sat, 11-06-2010 - 12:48pm

He's not sorry, WWWM. He's getting his rocks off with you and apparently many others. He obviously likes sex with lots of women. He likes the way they make him feel about himself. (Sound familiar???) So who can blame him if he tells you like it is and still offers to have sex with you if you want it?? He's wants you to float on a cloud with him?? (Please turn your head while I puke.)

What is up with these egotistical a**hats??

I'm gonna say something that's probably going to hurt but I want you to digest what I'm saying.

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.

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