omg just got off the phone w/MM"s W !!

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Registered: 02-09-2007
omg just got off the phone w/MM"s W !!
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Mon, 09-14-2009 - 12:13pm

omg.. my hands are still shaking.. i so am needing to get this out...


the part one of all this drama is in my other post about his wife finding out & wanting to meet with me.


we had agreed to talk after she found out about us being in contact again. i did start to talk to her on friday last week but we coudn't really talk then b/c she was at work. so we both agreed to talk at 11 this morning and not meet like she originally wanted.


obviously she was hurt and angry and betrayed by us both again. she kept reminding me that she could just march over here and tell my husband and how horrible it feels and my kids would hate me and she asked everyone and that's what they say to do.

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Mon, 09-14-2009 - 1:14pm
Hi LIG,

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Mon, 09-14-2009 - 1:45pm

First, I think talking to the W gives you a true sense of how real the situtation is.

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Registered: 02-05-2009
Mon, 09-14-2009 - 5:21pm

Hi LIG, I just wanted to send some hugs your way, looks like things may work out for your NC without needing to tell your H. Hopefully 'they' won't be bugging you anymore and you can truly start healing now. They have a long road ahead of them. Kudos to you for keeping a cool head and not losing it.

Now... time for NC and focusing on YOU!! You can do it, LIG!

hugs,

trixie xo



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Registered: 09-25-2006
Mon, 09-14-2009 - 6:28pm

She's not done with you Life......hang on.


Her motions are all over the place and she is devistated.

Onward and upward.