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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2006
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Sat, 11-06-2010 - 8:34am

I can't even believe this.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-06-2007
In reply to: whatiswrongwithme
Sat, 11-06-2010 - 2:20pm

Ugh, this man's attitude makes my blood boil. But putting that aside for now, this is your time to examine what allowed you to let him treat you the way he did. So many of us here on EAS are people pleasers and we continue to get walked on until it comes close to destroying our soul. You are lucky you you saw the storm coming. Now the hard work is to understand yourself and heal. It will takes months, probably longer. It won't be easy. You know the first move is NC and totally blocking this man. Lift yourself higher and let your journey begin. There are no special answers, no set rules to follow that will get you there. Only you will get yourself there.

Your xAP has the instinct of a hunter. You my dear were his "kill" .

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2006
In reply to: whatiswrongwithme
Sat, 11-06-2010 - 4:47pm
The truth hurts. This was very painful for me to read. The harsh light of reality. I need to go have a good cry. Too late, I am.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2009
In reply to: whatiswrongwithme
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 4:43pm

wiwwm,

you and i have very similar stories.

online website for cheaters? check

long-distance "love affair"? check

married dude who couldn't take his next breath of air without me? check

oh yeah, almost forgot, a serial cheater juggling multiple women whilst trolling for new victims? check

wiwwm, you and i have been had by a special breed of predator.

silence is eloquent, silence is dignified, silence is heard. ...
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2006
In reply to: whatiswrongwithme
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 5:56pm
Oh, I will email. Thank you SO much for posting your similar tale. I have felt like the scum of the earth for going there. Me, an educated, respected, professional, mother, WIFE, PTA volunteering....you get the picture. What's even worse is that he gave info upfront..."i love my wife" and I was still swept away.
As part of my payback to the universe I post my sordid secret to warn sad, lonely, desperate women (and men) from ever stooping to that. Thanks lillie, I will be in touch.

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