once a cheater, always a cheater?

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Registered: 01-23-2010
once a cheater, always a cheater?
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Thu, 06-03-2010 - 12:24pm

Dh has been doing his research, talking to people

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Thu, 06-03-2010 - 2:50pm

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IMO if you don’t get professional help to understand what issues and baggage lead you down the A dark alley way then you are certainly vulnerable to repeat the same mistakes. Also if one does not go complete NC or follow the rules of LC when they apply with xAP then yes one is keeping the door open for the possibility to cheat with the same person again.


It’s great that your husband is looking for help and please understand the level he has been betrayed on leads many BS to seek answers from all parties involved/affected by the poor choices you and xAP made. We, WS, have proved to be liars and morally corrupt so how can you blame them, BS,

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 03-17-2010
Thu, 06-03-2010 - 9:08pm

Ajay,


I know you're okay by just reading your post.

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Registered: 05-29-2010
Thu, 06-03-2010 - 11:24pm

When my H found out about my A, he did lots of reading too and kept going back to the" Once A Cheater - Always A Cheater".

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Registered: 08-21-2006
Sat, 06-05-2010 - 3:40pm

I was drawn to this post due to the title.