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Once you asked for NC
| Wed, 10-13-2010 - 11:30pm |
did AP try to contact you ? Curious how many had ex-ap's try to contact when they were told you wanted NC.
| Wed, 10-13-2010 - 11:30pm |
did AP try to contact you ? Curious how many had ex-ap's try to contact when they were told you wanted NC.
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Me? None.
After about the 2nd or 3rd try, I finally said no more. Funny thing, I thought
Babbling now. I'm still sad. :(
((((((CHECHI))))))
I know that feeling.
I was one of the newbies who was jealous of the other women on the board who had exAP's who fished. I was obessed with it. I kept wondering if he would fish. When? I longed for it? Just to know I mattered at some point. I ended things, but I still missed him and needed some assurance that I mattered....something!!
It took my exAP over two months to fish....and when he did, it was something awful. He would not let up! By then I was mortified! He happened to fish on the same day I had minor surgery. I was esp vulnerable and I felt so violated that he would even contact me.
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
I went NC without telling my XAP I was doing it.
I tried to disappear while XAP was on vacation over the summer - didn't work. When he got back I had about 10 scary, mean voice mails over the course of a few days. I felt that I needed to actually say the words "don't contact me", which I did. After that he stalked me for over a month - drove by my house and my office all the time but didn't call. I know he thought that I had ended it because there was someone else and I'm sure his drive bys were to catch me in the "act". It's so sad because there wasn't anyone else then and there still isn't now. But he always had to make it my fault. Fine with me! :)
Bodhi
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