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| Fri, 01-22-2010 - 7:27pm |
One week today since he ran me over with that bus again....7 times in 2 years...never any warning...just starts the engine and guns it.
| Fri, 01-22-2010 - 7:27pm |
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We know it hurts, Gabby
Try to remember that the driver of the bus isn't running all on cylinders...he disrespects everyone he comes in contact, doesn't love himself and really has nothing to offer anyone.
Gabby,
I know EXACTLY what you are saying.
Excellent idea!
All that and to be kicked to the curb in a single 2 hour span.
WOW, lifelesson...it would just crush me to re-read that "contract"...I mean, how can these men say such serious things like that and then walk away like they meant nothing?
LL,
I posted a thread about my exAP not contacting me at all, see the thread if you have not done so. The only thing I can add to what Clarity said is that you have heard him talk so much, he has said so many things....and even now he is not actually speaking or responding to you. His ACTIONS are the truth you probably never heard.. Hope that makes sense.
Men do not like the women who chase...the needy, desparate type, the call us "crazy," "stalkers", "obsessed," they tell people that about us, they joke with friends. I am not saying you are these things...I am just saying that is how you may be being perceived. I am not trying to be hurtful, I hope you understand that. I am just trying to say let it go, and one day you will be thankful that he did not/does not contact you.
Look at it like this, how many newbies have posted lately about MM contacted them and they are hurt and upset? They have been thrown off if they we having a good day, one person described it as their exAP had them shaking because of the unexpected call. Others state they are angry etc... Him not contacting you is the best thing he can do for you. Whether you know or want to believe it or not.
Every time you click the send button with an email or text, you are opening the door for him to hurt you again. U can try to make up reasons to continue doing so but it will only hurt you more.
27 days...I do not know how often you have sent texts and/or emails. But my first 10 days were hell with NC, if you can get thru 27 days and have not heard from him...What is that telling you??
Hugs to you...
Gabby,
One week under your belt. U made it. You did it, continue to build upon it. My first weeks was like a tornado. And hope you do not mind the highjack.
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
I'm glad you will no longer hold your breath waiting for JAM to make changes.
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