One week

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Registered: 12-24-2008
One week
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Fri, 01-22-2010 - 7:27pm
One week today since he ran me over with that bus again....7 times in 2 years...never any warning...just starts the engine and guns it.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: gabby4ever2
Fri, 01-22-2010 - 7:41pm

We know it hurts, Gabby


Try to remember that the driver of the bus isn't running all on cylinders...he disrespects everyone he comes in contact, doesn't love himself and really has nothing to offer anyone.


iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2008
In reply to: gabby4ever2
Fri, 01-22-2010 - 7:55pm
Thanks, Clarity...I think I'll hop on my treadmill and exercise ball and work on being the best damn looking thing he ever lost in his life.... :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
In reply to: gabby4ever2
Fri, 01-22-2010 - 8:37pm

Gabby,


I know EXACTLY what you are saying.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: gabby4ever2
Fri, 01-22-2010 - 8:39pm

Excellent idea!


iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: gabby4ever2
Fri, 01-22-2010 - 8:46pm

All that and to be kicked to the curb in a single 2 hour span.


iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2008
In reply to: gabby4ever2
Fri, 01-22-2010 - 9:46pm

WOW, lifelesson...it would just crush me to re-read that "contract"...I mean, how can these men say such serious things like that and then walk away like they meant nothing?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-18-2010
In reply to: gabby4ever2
Fri, 01-22-2010 - 10:05pm

LL,

I posted a thread about my exAP not contacting me at all, see the thread if you have not done so. The only thing I can add to what Clarity said is that you have heard him talk so much, he has said so many things....and even now he is not actually speaking or responding to you. His ACTIONS are the truth you probably never heard.. Hope that makes sense.

Men do not like the women who chase...the needy, desparate type, the call us "crazy," "stalkers", "obsessed," they tell people that about us, they joke with friends. I am not saying you are these things...I am just saying that is how you may be being perceived. I am not trying to be hurtful, I hope you understand that. I am just trying to say let it go, and one day you will be thankful that he did not/does not contact you.

Look at it like this, how many newbies have posted lately about MM contacted them and they are hurt and upset? They have been thrown off if they we having a good day, one person described it as their exAP had them shaking because of the unexpected call. Others state they are angry etc... Him not contacting you is the best thing he can do for you. Whether you know or want to believe it or not.

Every time you click the send button with an email or text, you are opening the door for him to hurt you again. U can try to make up reasons to continue doing so but it will only hurt you more.

27 days...I do not know how often you have sent texts and/or emails. But my first 10 days were hell with NC, if you can get thru 27 days and have not heard from him...What is that telling you??

Hugs to you...

Gabby,

One week under your belt. U made it. You did it, continue to build upon it. My first weeks was like a tornado. And hope you do not mind the highjack.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2008
In reply to: gabby4ever2
Fri, 01-22-2010 - 10:14pm
Thanks, Clarity....ya know..3 years ago, I faced some medical issues and realized I had to make some changes and one of those was to lose weight.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2008
In reply to: gabby4ever2
Fri, 01-22-2010 - 10:18pm
I dont mind the hijacks...they are giving advice and words of wisdom to someone who needs it....thank you!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: gabby4ever2
Fri, 01-22-2010 - 10:43pm

I'm glad you will no longer hold your breath waiting for JAM to make changes.


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