Opinions please

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Opinions please
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Tue, 10-19-2004 - 11:49am
If you tell your mm that you had no intentions of leaving your husband and that we shouldn't do it anymore or that he needs to be with his wife and you are going to be with your husband. You wanted him to leave his wife but you were not leaving your husband.You told him that you feel guilty and you feel like such a s--- to your husbnad. Also you told him that you really don't think we would have gotten along anyway and he said we would have but we will never know. Also you said you wanted to have another baby with husband. Okay, my question is eventhough I said those things to him at the end and just saying them to him to save face for myself _ I guess in a way I wanted him to hurt bc he wasn't as responsive this time around bc I already the two weeks before tried to break it off with him but called him back and we agreed to continue to talk and he said he wanted to continue and felt the same way but a few days later I brought it up again on why we are doing this. Back to my question do you think that he believes that eventhough after I said all that I called him back to make sure there were no hard feeling and he was nice but then I called again and he didn't want to talk to me. It will be four weeks this weekend. It's been tough but I would feel like a fool if I called again. Do you think by me not calling him after he was a jerk and said he would call back that that is showing him I did mean what I said to him. Just curious
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Registered: 12-28-2003
In reply to: merehud
Tue, 10-19-2004 - 1:40pm
Sorry what was the question, color me confused.

Maybe he has just had enough ?

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Registered: 10-13-2004
In reply to: merehud
Tue, 10-19-2004 - 1:48pm
I know it sounded pretty confusing asfter I posted it. Basically if you tell the mm that you want it over and then still call afterward and he didn't want to talk to you - does it look like I was wanting it over or does it look like he wanted it over. Yes, I must agree I think he had enough - but what of - me or the wishy washyness that I had?
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Registered: 12-28-2003
In reply to: merehud
Tue, 10-19-2004 - 2:42pm
Mere

More like a little emotional confusion, not uncommon when ending these things.

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