other woman

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Registered: 08-03-2004
other woman
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Wed, 10-20-2004 - 1:27pm
Hi Everyone

I'm new to this board and i been reading all your messages and some way they help me out.

I'm 30 years old and single,but i been having an affair with MM for 2 years, he's 48 years old we work together and we have tried to break our affair about 5 times already, and we can't do it i love him and i know he has feelings for me, but he already said to me he will never get a divorced, i have never ask anything from him, he's the one who sometimes sneaks out @ night to come and see me, and keeps calling me. I already see his W in a picture I'm more pretty than her, I'm starting to realize he's only playing with me, but i truly love him. please help me out, him and me worked together and when he's off i'm the one who does his work. It's so hard for me pls help me.

callat

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Registered: 03-05-2003
In reply to: callat
Wed, 10-20-2004 - 4:49pm

This may not be much of advice to you but YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!! From the sounds of it, he may be playing you. I do give him an ounce of credit for atleast telling you he is not divorcing his wife. He is More honest than I ever was with my OM. My advice is to find someone who is totally available to you, I know you love him, but why spend time (and by time I mean this could go on for years....believe me on this one.....) letting him have his cake??? Girl, get out there and get something you don't have to share!! I wish you the best!!

Karry

Karry - - who is learning to embrace life on her own raising her miracle, Carley Paige