Out of hiding

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-26-2010
Out of hiding
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Tue, 01-26-2010 - 4:23pm

I have been lurking on and off for two years.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2006
In reply to: jinklesmom
Tue, 01-26-2010 - 5:11pm

Oh geez JM, what a darn emotional mess this Bermuda Triangle is!


I suggest NC with ALL involved.

Onward and upward.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
In reply to: jinklesmom
Tue, 01-26-2010 - 5:19pm

JM,


First let me welcome you to the board , since you have been lurking for so long. With that said, I am sure you pretty much know the scoop around here and that this board is about ending affairs and THEN trying to figure out why we even went there. The quote that ran through my mind as I was reading your post is one that certainly fits your situation:


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave, When first we practice to deceive! "


Here's the deal. Whether your boss is single now or not, he has shown you in the past

   ~Iddy~ 


iVillage Member
Registered: 01-26-2010
In reply to: jinklesmom
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 4:13pm

Thank you for all the kind words of support.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
In reply to: jinklesmom
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 5:03pm

Dear Jinklesmom,


Thank you for responding back with what I think is excellent news. I am so happy you went to see your old Therapist, and even though she may have been tough on you, it makes you have to dig deep and find those answers within yourself. I believe all the answers we ever need are in our hearts/souls but life gets in the way of seeing them clearly. With time and distance you will continue learning about yourself and what motivates you to do the things you do. This is when we can work on changing the negative stuff.


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   ~Iddy~