First let me welcome you to the board , since you have been lurking for so long. With that said, I am sure you pretty much know the scoop around here and that this board is about ending affairs and THEN trying to figure out why we even went there. The quote that ran through my mind as I was reading your post is one that certainly fits your situation:
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave, When first we practice to deceive! "
Here's the deal. Whether your boss is single now or not, he has shown you in the past
Thank you for responding back with what I think is excellent news. I am so happy you went to see your old Therapist, and even though she may have been tough on you, it makes you have to dig deep and find those answers within yourself. I believe all the answers we ever need are in our hearts/souls but life gets in the way of seeing them clearly. With time and distance you will continue learning about yourself and what motivates you to do the things you do. This is when we can work on changing the negative stuff.
Oh geez JM, what a darn emotional mess this Bermuda Triangle is!
I suggest NC with ALL involved.
JM,
First let me welcome you to the board , since you have been lurking for so long. With that said, I am sure you pretty much know the scoop around here and that this board is about ending affairs and THEN trying to figure out why we even went there. The quote that ran through my mind as I was reading your post is one that certainly fits your situation:
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave, When first we practice to deceive! "
Here's the deal. Whether your boss is single now or not, he has shown you in the past
~Iddy~
Thank you for all the kind words of support.
Dear Jinklesmom,
Thank you for responding back with what I think is excellent news. I am so happy you went to see your old Therapist, and even though she may have been tough on you, it makes you have to dig deep and find those answers within yourself. I believe all the answers we ever need are in our hearts/souls but life gets in the way of seeing them clearly. With time and distance you will continue learning about yourself and what motivates you to do the things you do. This is when we can work on changing the negative stuff.
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~Iddy~