Over 1 Yr. with No Contact!

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Registered: 07-06-2003
Over 1 Yr. with No Contact!
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Sun, 11-28-2004 - 10:51pm

Hi to all:

Well, last fall, I was on this site every hour of every day searching for advice, or just to listen to others in the same boat as me. Well, my A ended, he stayed with his wife, I got a divorce, and I am very happy!

I have not spoken to MM in over 1 year, and I'm trying to date again. I don't regret the choices I've made in my life because I have learned from them and know I will not make them again.

So, for those of you who don't know if it will get better, believe me it will! We all grow at our own pace, but just be honest with yourself. And if you want him to be with only you, and he won't leave his W for any reason, leave him and move on.

Good luck to all! Follow your bliss!

--Christina

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Registered: 11-07-2004
Mon, 11-29-2004 - 7:18am

Bean

Thanks for the inspiration!

I am on day 3 of NC, and there were times this weekend I was sure I would die of the pain. I needed to fight the urge hourly to call/email him. But I did it..continuing to string day after day together to make weeks is what I will do.

Thanks Again....for showing us it is possible and you do survive the hurt.

Hope

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 7:13pm
Oh my gosh! I remember you from last year! So good to see you and hear that you are doing well. You moved on and sound so good! There IS life after divorce, eh? So good that you could walk away having learned something.

Jazzdiva

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Registered: 05-02-2004
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 7:38am

I applaud you for finding the courage to dig deep within yourself