Over as of Now

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-24-2006
Over as of Now
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Tue, 09-22-2009 - 1:17pm

I ended it today with a simple message that said

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-07-2009
Tue, 09-22-2009 - 1:38pm
Hello and welcome to EAS.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Tue, 09-22-2009 - 1:52pm
Hi OAJ,

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2009
Tue, 09-22-2009 - 1:57pm

Read my beginning post of HELP....where do I start ? I found invaluable wisdom from the posters on here to help me move from Day 1 to now Day 8 going on Day 9; even with a distraction over the weekend I am still NC and my FOG is slowly lifting; read read and re-read; thats my best advice for you; when you feel the desire to make contact come here; you will be glad you did; I also started to keep a NC journal; everyday I go and color in my box - its ridiculous I know but it is something I look forward to .... if you want to end this; you can do this; you just have to find the willpower; I didn't think I had it. I tried to end this several times for 3 years; finally a week ago Friday I really did some soul searching; I am checking out of this A; I am M AP is S. Its gone on far too long. I am re-investing in my marriage and not looking back. Keep the faith.


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-24-2006
Tue, 09-22-2009 - 3:11pm

Thank you all so far.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-11-2009
Tue, 09-22-2009 - 5:30pm

Congratulations on your ending and welcome.

 

              &n

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Tue, 09-29-2009 - 11:33am

dear oaj:


i hope today finds you in better spirits. it's hard for the body and mind to cleanse itself of all the emotions, fantasies and dysfunctional thinking/patterns of behaviors that exist in the A bubble.


you can do it! hang in there! and welcome welcome...

CL-Lovely Starr

"No memory of having starred; atones for later disregard; or keeps the end from being h