Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Read my beginning post of HELP....where do I start ? I found invaluable wisdom from the posters on here to help me move from Day 1 to now Day 8 going on Day 9; even with a distraction over the weekend I am still NC and my FOG is slowly lifting; read read and re-read; thats my best advice for you; when you feel the desire to make contact come here; you will be glad you did; I also started to keep a NC journal; everyday I go and color in my box - its ridiculous I know but it is something I look forward to .... if you want to end this; you can do this; you just have to find the willpower; I didn't think I had it. I tried to end this several times for 3 years; finally a week ago Friday I really did some soul searching; I am checking out of this A; I am M AP is S. Its gone on far too long. I am re-investing in my marriage and not looking back. Keep the faith.
i hope today finds you in better spirits. it's hard for the body and mind to cleanse itself of all the emotions, fantasies and dysfunctional thinking/patterns of behaviors that exist in the A bubble.
you can do it! hang in there! and welcome welcome...
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Read my beginning post of HELP....where do I start ? I found invaluable wisdom from the posters on here to help me move from Day 1 to now Day 8 going on Day 9; even with a distraction over the weekend I am still NC and my FOG is slowly lifting; read read and re-read; thats my best advice for you; when you feel the desire to make contact come here; you will be glad you did; I also started to keep a NC journal; everyday I go and color in my box - its ridiculous I know but it is something I look forward to .... if you want to end this; you can do this; you just have to find the willpower; I didn't think I had it. I tried to end this several times for 3 years; finally a week ago Friday I really did some soul searching; I am checking out of this A; I am M AP is S. Its gone on far too long. I am re-investing in my marriage and not looking back. Keep the faith.
Thank you all so far.
Congratulations on your ending and welcome.
dear oaj:
i hope today finds you in better spirits. it's hard for the body and mind to cleanse itself of all the emotions, fantasies and dysfunctional thinking/patterns of behaviors that exist in the A bubble.
you can do it! hang in there! and welcome welcome...
CL-Lovely Starr
"No memory of having starred; atones for later disregard; or keeps the end from being h