Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
I'm sorry your having a tough day, when it rains it sure pours doesn't it? I'm glad your resolve is intact to not break contact:) Put this day behind you and put xap out of your mind, relax and breathe and do something that is good for you. xap won't make you feel better he will just add to your stressful day.
Sometimes I think here should be separate sections for the married people in early NC and the single ones as there are considerable differences in how things play out.
To me it seems obvious that you might have a fight with your H.
You are missing the escape you had from RL issues like arguing with H. Remember, your emotions are very raw right now so any little thing could set you off. This is when you have to fight those thoughts of XAP because he was really just another problem, not the solution.
MC - please read the Dday thread, and the thread about DDay pain vs. ending pain.
It is not to minimize your feelings, just hoping it can help you re-frame your feelings.
((hugs))
TU.
MC -
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I'm sorry your having a tough day, when it rains it sure pours doesn't it? I'm glad your resolve is intact to not break contact:) Put this day behind you and put xap out of your mind, relax and breathe and do something that is good for you. xap won't make you feel better he will just add to your stressful day.
Sometimes I think here should be separate sections for the married people in early NC and the single ones as there are considerable differences in how things play out.
To me it seems obvious that you might have a fight with your H.
MC,
You are missing the escape you had from RL issues like arguing with H. Remember, your emotions are very raw right now so any little thing could set you off. This is when you have to fight those thoughts of XAP because he was really just another problem, not the solution.
I hope today will be one of your better days.
(((Hugs))
Thankyou everyone,
I got through Thursday ugh