Pep Talk Needed

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2010
Pep Talk Needed
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Thu, 11-18-2010 - 6:15pm

Grrrrrrrrrrr

Home from a stressful day at work.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-28-2010
Thu, 11-18-2010 - 6:17pm

MC - please read the Dday thread, and the thread about DDay pain vs. ending pain.

It is not to minimize your feelings, just hoping it can help you re-frame your feelings.

((hugs))

TU.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2010
Thu, 11-18-2010 - 7:30pm

MC -

First

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Thu, 11-18-2010 - 9:29pm
Hi MC,

I'm sorry your having a tough day, when it rains it sure pours doesn't it? I'm glad your resolve is intact to not break contact:) Put this day behind you and put xap out of your mind, relax and breathe and do something that is good for you. xap won't make you feel better he will just add to your stressful day.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2010
Thu, 11-18-2010 - 9:52pm

Sometimes I think here should be separate sections for the married people in early NC and the single ones as there are considerable differences in how things play out.

To me it seems obvious that you might have a fight with your H.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Fri, 11-19-2010 - 7:23am

MC,

You are missing the escape you had from RL issues like arguing with H. Remember, your emotions are very raw right now so any little thing could set you off. This is when you have to fight those thoughts of XAP because he was really just another problem, not the solution.

I hope today will be one of your better days.

(((Hugs))

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2010
Fri, 11-19-2010 - 8:51am

Thankyou everyone,

I got through Thursday ugh

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Fri, 11-19-2010 - 12:37pm
Happy Friday MC:) Have a fantastic day, staying busy is a good plan, I know it helps me too:)