Is this a phase or are we truly done?

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Registered: 03-27-2008
Is this a phase or are we truly done?
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Mon, 11-02-2009 - 8:36am

XAP & I have gone back & forth numerous times ending it and not ending it

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Registered: 10-26-2009
Mon, 11-02-2009 - 10:12am

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Registered: 03-27-2008
Mon, 11-02-2009 - 10:51am
He claims he is done so we have to be done. I'm trying to figure out if he means it this time, if so I need support on ending it.
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Registered: 10-26-2009
Mon, 11-02-2009 - 11:08am

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Registered: 02-05-2009
Mon, 11-02-2009 - 11:57am

Hi dreamz,


I remember you posting here awhile back but I don't recall your details - are you a MW?


You may miss the attention but it sounds like this man is totally racked with guilt over your relationship... Why keep such a dysfunctional relationship alive, just for 'attention'? He has a W and family at home, and they deserve 100% of his attention. I know you're not ready to hear that message right now, just let it be food for thought. Instead of looking for attention from him, try to fix the problems in your own life and look for fulfillment within yourself.


This is going to end one day, and not in your favor - do you really want to risk a D-day over this?


peace and hugs


trixie xo


Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about learning to
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Registered: 07-24-2005
Mon, 11-02-2009 - 12:44pm

I, too, believe you are on the wrong Board.