Pivotal Apex's

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Pivotal Apex's
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Thu, 08-19-2010 - 10:44am

Rather than hijack Ferns lioness thread...Victory's comment set me thinking...


<<.I think the apex of all of that is an affair (at least it was for me) and that point becomes a pivotal time in one's life>>


When you look back at your life, there are undoubtably pivotal times you can pinpoint and whilst an A is certainly

New Choices, New Chapter,


New Challenges,

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 08-19-2010 - 11:22am

Bingo.


Your use of the words "precipitate change" are telling.

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Thu, 08-19-2010 - 3:40pm

NC,


I did get your reply on my other thread. Thanks!


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I believe too many take the victim mentality. Why is this happening to me? It seems when we look at how we got into the predicament we are/were in and what choices we made, then we start turning the corner for gaining back our power. When we start using that power to control our actions and navigate our course, the reasons start to come into focus. When we take responsibility for our actions, we are open to learning life’s lessons.


<< my H couldnt provide the strength, knowledge or advice i needed.but AP could and did....>>


XAP was a catalyst. Your H never could provide enough strength, knowledge or advice nor could xAP. It was in you and always was. You used the experience to be open to figuring it all out. Good for you. They cannot/could not ever do that for you.


Much love and big hugs,


E1


Whether you think you can or you think you can’t you are probably right.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 02-25-2010
Thu, 08-19-2010 - 9:04pm

Absolutely

New Choices, New Chapter,


New Challenges,