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Player or No player????
| Tue, 11-23-2004 - 11:45pm |
If I looked in the dictionary I bet his picture would be beside the word Player.
| Tue, 11-23-2004 - 11:45pm |
If I looked in the dictionary I bet his picture would be beside the word Player.
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UHG
Player at best, maybe emotionally disturbed, men that need to conqure other mens wives often have real self-esteem issues and can be out right Narcissists, sick little puppies.
You should make sure this woman has a clear understanding of his history and his playbook.
Oh and tell he all his lines before he uses them.
Jmho
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sc
oh my gosh, yes...a player!
You had an ah-hah moment...run with it. If you learn a valuable lesson here, and never repeat it, I'd say you're going to be fine. You were vulnerable when you leaned on MM. YOu're not now. Your anger here is a good thing.
Be *Thankful* for that.
Unappy,
Probably a player. You didn't really go into anything about your deceased husband, but I would guess that you were going through a lot of emotional turmoil during the time you got involved with him. I say let your coworker have him and move on with your life.
To elbomac and Sillyme:
I definately had an aha moment!
sc
UHG -
Bleh! I hate men right now (I know I shouldn't say stuff like that). I can imagine you are feeling pretty yucky right now. Especially after he compromised your user name! That would have ticked me off. This is a place you are suppose to feel safe - it sucks that he would try to take that away from you.
As far as him flirting w/ the other secretary....well, who knows. Maybe he is doing it to get back at you - maybe he is doing it to make himself feel better. I asked my xOM if he was dating one (or had dated anyone) since we broke up and he said no. Then I aksed if he had slept with anyone since we broke up and he said yes - 2 people! OK - THANKS! I guess I was REAL difficult to get over - and if he can get laid so easily, then why is he still trying to get in my pants??? UGH! Personally I think he is trying to see if I still care and to try to aggrevate me - job well done!
Anyhow, I wish I had some helpful advice, but I don't (I suck!). Just stay strong and try not to let HIM see that you are bothered by it (they LOVE that!).
Diva
PS - Thanks for replying to my post too :-)
Hey Diva,
Yes was very angry that he even gave the effort to hunt for my username.
sc
UHG -
Found myself think alot about xOM today - guess it was just cause it was a holiday. Just puts you in that kind of mood I guess...
Anyway, yeah - hearing he had slept w/others since me hurt, but he has always been single. Who knows if he's really telling the truth (several lies have surfaced over the last few weeks).
The time capsule thing is a cool idea - I may have to try that.
Hope you had a fabulous Thanksgiving!
Diva
Thanks Diva,
Hope you had a great Thanksgiving too!
sc
UHG -
I wish I was that strong! I wrote a post earlier this morning. It's been 10 days now - longest we have ever gone with NC. Really missing him and not sure why! The 'great' relationship we had ended in June (even though we didn't officially end it until August). He's been nothing less than an a#$hole since October, and here I am crying over him! What does that say about me?
H is really trying hard too. We had a great weekend together - he even wanted to go out to the bars w/ me Friday night. Thought that would be alot more fun than it was. We ended up at a bar I really like, but I know xOM likes too. I spent an hour looking around the room and checking the front door. I was so uncomfortable, I had to get out of there. All I kept thinking was "I wish I was sitting here w/xOM" - how f&^ked up is that??
Then Saturday H & I went shopping and then to dinner w/ his brother & sister-in-law. Again, everything was great, but thoughts about what xOM was doing kept coming into my head.
I just don't want to think about him anymore. I don't want to be sad anymore. G-d I'm sick of feeling this way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But on a positive note, I'm glad you're feeling better :-)
Diva
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