playing well with others

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Registered: 04-19-2003
playing well with others
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Sat, 04-19-2003 - 2:00pm
Ive been luking here and although Ive never posted I have gotten a lot of encouragement here. What Ive seen happen is that "people" seem to want to judge who was more in the wrong, the MP or the SP if that was the A combination. Who is ANYONE to judge that? One married person in an affair might never have "promised the moon", Ive seen single people promise to "be here" and not keep their promise. Its a painful situation for everyone. There are lies everywhere in an A, no 2 situations are the same because there are more variables than M or S. Sure the married person promised to their spouse not to cheat, but we've all already accepted that by cheatng ourselves or loving a cheater. The single person has responsiblility in this too because they know they are interfering in a married couples life. Let's not make each other feel worse by making such sweeping statements about all M or S. Good luck to this board, it is an important help line for anyone ending an A.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 04-19-2003 - 2:48pm
Nicely said...very nicely said.