Please help me :(

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Registered: 12-14-2009
Please help me :(
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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 1:37pm
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 2:11pm

SOM,


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   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 03-03-2005
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 2:47pm

I thought by now someone like a vet would have responded to you, I have a lot of time on my hands and this board keeps me from my own misery. work completely shuts down for me, I am a newbie but i have learned a lot from strong powerful women on here...i have also learned from reading here.

heres my best advice, first, stop beating yourself up about the past. Nothing you can do about it. try to forgive yourself and move on, just do not do it again, start NC again, if you really want this A to end, then NC is the only way. U must block every possible way for him to contact you. if he somehow gets thru, hang up, or ignore, walk away, or whatever. you have the power to do this, only you. It seems you have been suffering a lot lately. I am sorry, perhaps you should see a T on your own. I hurt two, I am just over a week of NC and hurt bad, my situation is long and complicated and even involved a pregnancy, I did not know he was married but I still did not stop once I knew, by then he had my heart. I tell you this so you know, that although different I can relate.

I think NC is best, work thru these issues with a T, focus on your H, if you decide to tell him, that is up to you. But if you end it and stop doing things to harm yourself you can heal and move on

Dont call yourself a whore, we have all done things we regret on this site, we have all fell short, stop beating yourself up and change it up, I am here all day if you want to post back and forth, thats what the board is for. hang in there...

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2006
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 2:51pm
Are you a sexual abuse survivor?
Onward and upward.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-14-2009
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 2:55pm
No, I'm not.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2006
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 3:02pm

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